My hubby and I met online about ten years ago, he was in his home state of NYC, I was in my home state of Ohio. We fell for one another immediately, I moved to NYC and was there for seven years. We currently reside in Allentown, PA
, it was a dream at first, but now I'm homesick and I want to move back to Ohio and he doesn't. My family is there (my children, grandchildren, brothers, sister's, etc.). My husband has an aunt (whom he adores) and her family in Cincinnati, which is about 1 1/2 hours from Columbus.
I have sacrificed ten years of my life to be with this man, during which time I lost my Mother, Father and Grandmother one month apart, and most recently (1 month ago) my second-oldest sister, I am the youngest girl. Since losing all these people, I have come to the realization that time only goes one way and the most precious time is that spent with family. I didn't get to spend much time with my sister before she passed only through skype and phone calls. My daughter is pregnant with my second grand and I want to be there!
My husband only has two sisters and is on the outs with his middle sister. His youngest sister visits all the time because we're only 90 minutes from NYC. Both his parents are deceased so he only mainly has this one sister as family, his son and daughter (my step-children) barely communicate with him and then there's me, his wife.
We have been having some problems in our marriage recently. I think it's more me than him, I'm just depressed and homesick. Any suggestions? No jokes please, I seriously need some help!