What's Wrong With A "Womanizer"? (younger, mature, seeking)

[Thursday007]

A male friend of mine put it this way, "I didn't do any differently what anyone else has done, I just did it all at the same time."

[onihC]

What’s wrong being a womanizer? I don’t see anything positive about cheating, hurting a woman’s feelings, seeing them as a sex piece, etc. so yeah, it is wrong to be one. How would you feel if someone was doing those things to your sister? Women can do the same with men and its not right either.

[DrummerBoy]

Originally Posted by Visvaldis

Many men like women. Some men are successful with women. Some men are not, no matter how hard they try.
The word "womanizer' is a negative slur in America, as if liking (and being successful with) women is a bad thing. Why is this?
Maybe it's envy by the crude, emotionally insecure, passionless knuckleheads.

Well, you've probably noticed that it's only women who use that term. At least I've never heard another male accuse a guy of being a womanizer.
Stud? Yeah. Cocksman? You bet. HornDog? Aa-iight.
But not womanizer.

I also have noticed that it's the...well..how shall we say? The not-so-attractive or not-in-a-happy-relationship or haven't had-an-orgasm-since-Moses-was-in-shortpants women who derisively fling around the womanizer lable.
Or angry dykes.
How come hotties never worry about womanizing men?

My wife, for example: gorgeous, talented, educated, deliriously happy in her marriage. I've never heard her use that term. Instead, she'll laugh about some guy like that and say something along the lines of, "Boy that dude gets around more than Charlie Sheen!"

Just my dos centavos, amigos.

[brushrunner]

"womanizer' If you ever seen me you would think I was full of BS but use to be with several women during the month.Yea hear some talk about how disgusting I was but I found many very curious and word got around.

My wife had to deal with past Friends when we got together and yes it caused problems.

brushrunner

[Visvaldis]

Originally Posted by onihC

What’s wrong being a womanizer? I don’t see anything positive about cheating, hurting a woman’s feelings, seeing them as a sex piece, etc. so yeah, it is wrong to be one. How would you feel if someone was doing those things to your sister? Women can do the same with men and its not right either.

Who said anything about cheating or hurting feelings?
It's all in your head.
The people who get down on womanizers are often those who have little luck with the women, probably because they are emotionally insecure, immature, lack in passion, and fail in relationships.

[Ro2113]

Originally Posted by Visvaldis

Who said anything about cheating or hurting feelings?
It's all in your head.
The people who get down on womanizers are often those who have little luck with the women, probably because they are emotionally insecure, immature, lack in passion, and fail in relationships.

Why is it do you think that only hapless men dislike womanizers? Some of the women on this forum have dissed womanizers too.

[CancerianMoonPrincess]

Originally Posted by onihC

What’s wrong being a womanizer? I don’t see anything positive about cheating, hurting a woman’s feelings, seeing them as a sex piece, etc. so yeah, it is wrong to be one. How would you feel if someone was doing those things to your sister? Women can do the same with men and its not right either.

Dang I was gonna rep you! I gotta spread the reps! Oh well. Kudos to this comment!

[90sman]

Originally Posted by onihC

What’s wrong being a womanizer? I don’t see anything positive about cheating, hurting a woman’s feelings, seeing them as a sex piece, etc. so yeah, it is wrong to be one. How would you feel if someone was doing those things to your sister? Women can do the same with men and its not right either.

YES!

People who do things like this obviously have a lack of maturity.

[Anna777]

nothing is wrong with a womanizer, as long as they wear protection and stay out of commitments. vice versa.

[Visvaldis]

Originally Posted by 90sman

YES!

People who do things like this obviously have a lack of maturity.

Everything is relative. What you may find as immature may not be what another person finds immature.