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Old 07-17-2011, 07:08 PM
 
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Just ended a "relationship" with a girl who ended it by texting me saying she needs a guy who pays for things the majority of the time. Keep in mind I paid for the first 4 dates, a weekend trip to the beach for two and this past weekend she paid for waffle house and then we split a meal at panera bread. a few hours later after panera she texts me saying she needs a guy who pays for the majority of the dates. i didn't realize that her paying for waffle house was too much for her haha. i'm a teacher and make a king's ransom obviously ;-). i also drove us everywhere and would buy her random things like cigarettes, wine, even cooked meals at her place i bought everything from the grocery store.

so ladies how long into a dating do you start paying?
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Old 07-17-2011, 07:12 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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she sounded like a d bag... you dodged a bullet.....
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Old 07-17-2011, 07:14 PM
 
Location: Orlandooooooo
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Ummm you Def Dodged A Bullet Bro lol
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Old 07-17-2011, 07:16 PM
 
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Just ended a "relationship" with a girl who ended it by texting me saying she needs a guy who pays for things the majority of the time. Keep in mind I paid for the first 4 dates, a weekend trip to the beach for two and this past weekend she paid for waffle house and then we split a meal at panera bread. a few hours later after panera she texts me saying she needs a guy who pays for the majority of the dates. i didn't realize that her paying for waffle house was too much for her haha. i'm a teacher and make a king's ransom obviously ;-). i also drove us everywhere and would buy her random things like cigarettes, wine, even cooked meals at her place i bought everything from the grocery store.

so ladies how long into a dating do you start paying?
I would've called her a doosh and told her good luck princess.

I would have done the same thing in your shoes, except my tongue is pretty vicious when I choose it to be.
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Old 07-17-2011, 07:17 PM
 
Location: The Milky Way Galaxy
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Let me say this one ending was DEFINITELY for the best. That is a textbook example of a gold-digger. AND she even told you...when she ends it telling you so.

I know my fiancee when we first started was already paying for half the stuff on the second date. I guess I got lucky
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Old 07-17-2011, 07:17 PM
 
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definitely aware of this now. i knew girls were all about the atm receipt but my goodness. so much for women's lib i guess.
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Old 07-17-2011, 07:17 PM
 
Location: Columbia, California
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The women I dated repeatly often picked up the tab.

One woman stopped me at the register and said "let me help you with that". She pulled out one dollar.
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Old 07-17-2011, 07:18 PM
 
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Lots of women will share dates, your last one was / is a gold digger looking for a sucker!
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Old 07-17-2011, 07:24 PM
 
Location: Moose Jaw, in between the Moose's butt and nose.
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Just ended a "relationship" with a girl who ended it by texting me saying she needs a guy who pays for things the majority of the time. Keep in mind I paid for the first 4 dates, a weekend trip to the beach for two and this past weekend she paid for waffle house and then we split a meal at panera bread. a few hours later after panera she texts me saying she needs a guy who pays for the majority of the dates. i didn't realize that her paying for waffle house was too much for her haha. i'm a teacher and make a king's ransom obviously ;-). i also drove us everywhere and would buy her random things like cigarettes, wine, even cooked meals at her place i bought everything from the grocery store.

so ladies how long into a dating do you start paying?
Pal, looks like she did you a favor......you'll be better off without her. Seems she has all her character in her body,...in the index finger.
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Old 07-17-2011, 07:24 PM
 
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definitely aware of this now. i knew girls were all about the atm receipt but my goodness. so much for women's lib i guess.
A lot of women will offer to pay, and do pay.

By the 2nd date, I will offer, and if he insisted will insist on paying for drinks/movie... or something! Very rude to not offer.
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