Just to get it down!

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by blahblah123

Thanks for all the replies! I have definitely taken it all in. Last few days I have distanced myself from her but she can already tell that something is up and has questioned it. The thing is, from reading all the replies, i'm not sure if i want to distance myself completly from her as if to cut her out of my life or to still be friends and to tell her whats up and hope that she understands?

Let her know you will pursue other girls and let her know its her loss that she did not accept you.

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by blahblah123

Haha. That wouldn't be a bad idea and could be potentially very funny. However, like they said above, Karma is a b***h

As long as he can keep his feelings in control.

[blahblah123]

Update #2. She wanted to see me so we had coffee today. When I was there, I did think about all comments above and thought to myself, I don't need to take all this crap that she was telling me. It sounds like she just likes messing with guys cause there is another guy that seems to hang out heaps with her and sees her one on one alot. I kind of feel sorry for the bf to have to put up with it all. So i guess, the coffee was abit of an eye opener and I think it has helped me alot to get over her!!! Thanks for all the posts and I'll try keep let you all know what happens in the end. "H886," thanks for the advice. Helps alot!

[SwedishViking]

Probably been said 4 times/page
give it a final try to make her cheat on her BF, if she doesn't dump her as a friend or you'll never get anywhere, because you'll be done with her if she doesn't replace her boyfriend with you.
On the other hand if she does cheat on him with you, you will probably have trust issues with her sticking to you so it's a double edged sword.

I usually just leave it when I find myself in your situation.

The exception is if she could aid you in your search for someone else... (search for pivot+wingman on google)