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Old 07-20-2011, 10:37 PM
 
Location: Not Nowhere
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you know, I always want to ask them to do what I want..but when you feel like they don't care either way, I just don't bother. I mean sex is good cause its sex, but its definitely been lacking a little bit for me.
Then don't ask. Force.
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Old 07-20-2011, 10:47 PM
 
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Then don't ask. Force.

oooh..I've never been fully in control ...maybe I'll like it, lol.
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Old 07-21-2011, 07:22 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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because a person with little to zero experience can and usually are GREAT in bed.
Don't agree on that as a general rule

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Old 07-21-2011, 07:26 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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players are the WORST in bed..good god..its like not having sex at all.

That part of my OP is probably better rephrased from

"I'm sure its a quality many of us like. Which raises an oxymoron (I hate that word but unable to think of a better one) : women generally don't approve of players and the like"

To :

"I'm sure its a quality many of us like. Which raises an oxymoron (I hate that word but unable to think of a better one) : women generally don't approve of guys who have been with several women"
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Old 07-21-2011, 07:37 AM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Don't agree on that as a general rule
Try reading my entire sentence and not just the last part:

"Having a willingness to please is the best because a person with little to zero experience can and usually are GREAT in bed".

I find this to absoulutely be true.
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Old 07-21-2011, 07:41 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Try reading my entire sentence and not just the last part:

"Having a willingness to please is the best because a person with little to zero experience can and usually are GREAT in bed".

I find this to absoulutely be true.
I agree with the first part....but as I said not the 2nd part. Without experience, you cannot satisfy unless you are taught and/or gain experience.
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Old 07-21-2011, 07:43 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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"Having a willingness to please is the best because a person with little to zero experience can and usually are GREAT in bed" ...
... after completing my 26 week training course. Please contact me for syllabus and tuition information.
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Old 07-21-2011, 05:36 PM
 
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Try reading my entire sentence and not just the last part:

"Having a willingness to please is the best because a person with little to zero experience can and usually are GREAT in bed".

I find this to absoulutely be true.
very true..my ex had almost no experience before me and he was the best I had. so I don't fall for the more experience, better skill b.s..its pure bull.
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Old 07-21-2011, 05:40 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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very true..my ex had almost no experience before me and he was the best I had. so I don't fall for the more experience, better skill b.s..its pure bull.
Do you always base rules on such large core samples
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Old 07-21-2011, 05:41 PM
 
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very true..my ex had almost no experience before me and he was the best I had. so I don't fall for the more experience, better skill b.s..its pure bull.
You do/should develop better skills as you have more sex. But that doesn't mean those skills are good on you. If something isn't working, you need to tell him what you want and show him if you have to.

I ain't afraid to learn new skills in the sheets.
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