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So, you actually want a relationship?? Playing games doesn't sound like it.
Here's some advice. Pay attention to what a guy does and no so much what comes out of his mouth. If his words and actions coincide and you really like him, he's a good candidate.
So you are mad at me for what girls in the past did to you?
No, what I'm trying to do is make sure you don't do that again in the future, as I'm pretty sure most men do not appreciate being blown off, amongst other things.
But, really, I don't understand why you believe that's an appropriate thing to do? That does nothing to protect yourself, you're just leading him on, and only hurting the guy.
Yeah the other things are pretty terrible also, but that one in particular is just flat out wrong.
It's not mean. It's called being blunt. You're 22. Take the advice now while you're still young, instead of being 30+ and in the same situation.
Do people really change that much? If you're cool at 22, you're probably going to be pretty cool at 30. Folk tend to get on trajectories by the time they're in their early 20s rather than doing 180s. Granted, that's not the case for all. When I was 18 I had an epiphany; that I would have to figure out, or at least have an idea, of who I was and what I was about by the time I was 23. That was the magic number due to a few authors and friends. I figured that I was highly malleable in youth, but eventually I would get set in my ways. I found that to be a truth as I've grown older.
No, what I'm trying to do is make sure you don't do that again in the future, as I'm pretty sure most men do not appreciate being blown off, amongst other things.
But, really, I don't understand why you believe that's an appropriate thing to do? That does nothing to protect yourself, you're just leading him on, and only hurting the guy.
Yeah the other things are pretty terrible also, but that one in particular is just flat out wrong.
Do people really change that much? If you're cool at 22, you're probably going to be pretty cool at 30. Folk tend to get on trajectories by the time they're in their early 20s rather than doing 180s. Granted, that's not the case for all. When I was 18 I had an epiphany; that I would have to figure out, or at least have an idea, of who I was and what I was about by the time I was 23. That was the magic number due to a few authors and friends. I figured that I was highly malleable in youth, but eventually I would get set in my ways. I found that to be a truth as I've grown older.
180s are rare. Core personalities are set in early childhood.
Do people really change that much? If you're cool at 22, you're probably going to be pretty cool at 30. Folk tend to get on trajectories by the time they're in their early 20s rather than doing 180s. Granted, that's not the case for all. When I was 18 I had an epiphany; that I would have to figure out, or at least have an idea, of who I was and what I was about by the time I was 23. That was the magic number due to a few authors and friends. I figured that I was highly malleable in youth, but eventually I would get set in my ways. I found that to be a truth as I've grown older.
So that made you change as a person?
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