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"But sex will be your general purpose. And if you suck, there won't be a second time around."
roflmao!! This is so true! Did any of you ever see the movie "Waiting to Exhale"? The character Savanna in the movie is hilarious in the scenes where she sleeps with someone.......he's being all dramatic, making lots of noise but that's about it....and she thinks to herself "does he think he just DID something here"?? There's several scenes in that movie similar to that, it's a good movie anyway but those in particular are golden!
To the OP.......is sex ALL you're after with these women you're attracted to? Don't forget, everyone has feelings.......yes some may only be looking for a young guy to sleep with, but just be careful not to lead anyone on, if that's all you're out for, make sure both of you guys understand that.
That being said........you know what they say about older women......once you've slept with one, you'll never go back! They probably will teach you a thing or two as well!
That being said........you know what they say about older women......once you've slept with one, you'll never go back! They probably will teach you a thing or two as well!
This is even truer than my statement. There's nothing like breaking down an experienced sex partner. You feel like you've actually done something. Plus, grown women appreciate great sex more. The really love it when you make them feel sexy by admiring their body and open-mouth kissing her. Thats stuff older guys stop doing. You can really feel the heat from grown up women. Its the best sex you will ever have. But you gotta go all in and not be intimidated.......
We could start a thread about older men's kisses... I'm thinking about writing a book... LOL
Men have to first start with a great kiss... not the "thousand tongue thrust" (yes one guy thought he was a winner with that one )... then the "hook the tongue on the back of my teeth one"... yes and it just stayed hooked there... GEEZ... what do you do with that?? then the empty mouth one... "HELLO... is anyone in there kiss"... sorry but couldn't help but think of these when reading the kissing post..
Yes... these were over 50 men... makes me think about just why they are still single... did I tell them how far off they were??? Nope... I figure if they've gotten here this long.. they must think they have arrived at the ultimate kiss... Not so much LOL
Practice the kiss and make it passionate... 50% of it/ at least for me... most of my female friends all agree... they believe I should write that book...
We could start a thread about older men's kisses... I'm thinking about writing a book... LOL
Men have to first start with a great kiss... not the "thousand tongue thrust" (yes one guy thought he was a winner with that one )... then the "hook the tongue on the back of my teeth one"... yes and it just stayed hooked there... GEEZ... what do you do with that?? then the empty mouth one... "HELLO... is anyone in there kiss"... sorry but couldn't help but think of these when reading the kissing post..
Yes... these were over 50 men... makes me think about just why they are still single... did I tell them how far off they were??? Nope... I figure if they've gotten here this long.. they must think they have arrived at the ultimate kiss... Not so much LOL
Practice the kiss and make it passionate... 50% of it/ at least for me... most of my female friends all agree... they believe I should write that book...
Yeah, kissing is something you feel, not just something you do.
Right, I just don't know how to break the ice/get them to come home w me.
I don't have time to go to cougar bars (I will in the fall once school starts, though)
You are pretty funy.
So let me get this straight:
You are a horny guy in your twenties looking to hook up with a 35 to 45 year old woman. Just hook up.
Most of the ladies in this age group are married. Some unhappily married who may hook up with you but then will mess up their lives as you continue on your way through school not seeing the small children caught in the middle as Mom and Dad are yelling about the cheating. Dad leaves and the children see him every other weekend cause Mom cheated. No fault of Dad's but the children suffer.
Wait! That would be if they are married. I know you wouldn't do that...
However, I think you can find a divorced woman towing a couple children around that may be able to send them off to bed early for an evening with you. That is...if they have enough energy to do so.
We could start a thread about older men's kisses... I'm thinking about writing a book... LOL
Men have to first start with a great kiss... not the "thousand tongue thrust" (yes one guy thought he was a winner with that one )... then the "hook the tongue on the back of my teeth one"... yes and it just stayed hooked there... GEEZ... what do you do with that?? then the empty mouth one... "HELLO... is anyone in there kiss"... sorry but couldn't help but think of these when reading the kissing post..
Yes... these were over 50 men... makes me think about just why they are still single... did I tell them how far off they were??? Nope... I figure if they've gotten here this long.. they must think they have arrived at the ultimate kiss... Not so much LOL
Practice the kiss and make it passionate... 50% of it/ at least for me... most of my female friends all agree... they believe I should write that book...
The kiss is important. However, you can tell when someone is just not into it. The quick peck is a sure tell sign that he is not into you.
If you can just connect lips and just wait there for a moment to allow each other to feel the warmth it's a great start. Then gently massage her lips with yours not even getting into the wetness of her mouth yet. Then as you continue to mold your lips to her's you can work into a top lip and bottom lip massage that can produce some moisture to the kiss that is a sure "mmmm" from her as you work your bodies closer...
Well, Hawk50, there is one really good thing that works in your favor as a young man. If you do meet a woman closer to your age group that you fall for, and get married, you will have plenty of time to enjoy her "older years" as you advance together.
I have a thing for older women (Im 22). A lot of times at the gas station or the grocery store there are a lot of older women who are attractive. Sometimes much older.
A few of them have began small talk with me, but nothing beyond that. I've never started the conversation.
I'm sure this is probably very unrealistic, but I want to go home with 1 of them them/take them home and hook up with them. I don't know what the appeal is, I just do.
And its only older women. Maybe I think they don't get much sex or something.
Anyone have any experiences/suggestions?
Unless they are married, most likely they are looking for something more than "hooking up". Most mature women who are not married are looking for a relationship or marriage. And, if they have been married before, most likely she has children to deal with.
If you are a mature young man, then maybe this will appeal to you, but from the tone of your post, I get the distinct feeling that this isn't what you have in mind.
20yrsinBranson
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