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Old 02-22-2012, 04:54 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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I was married to one man for 38 years and sex with him wasn't worth the effort...no matter how old he was.

But I'm lucky now. The man I'm with is 56 and he's always ready. He loves sex and intimacy in general. He's a lover and a gentleman. I've had more sex with him than I did in 38 years of marriage.

All men are not created equal in that department. Age is not the only determining factor. My SO says his grandparents were still having sex in their 80's and he wants to be just like them!
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Old 02-22-2012, 05:12 PM
 
Location: Saint Louis, MO
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I'm 44 and don't feel any different than before in the sex department. I still want to have sex pretty much every time I lay next to my wife. I would have sex every single day if she wanted to. As it is the frequency is about 2-3 times a week. I'm married so I don't know how I would feel if I were dating. We generally don't have sex multiple times in a night, so it's hard for me to know if I'm different in that department. I generally wait 20-30 minutes regardless.
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Old 02-22-2012, 05:16 PM
 
Location: In The Thin Air
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41 and no problems here. My only problem is keeping a 4 year old asleep and out of our bedroom.
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Old 02-22-2012, 05:30 PM
 
Location: Springfield MO
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Sex and Men over 40? What age do men start having less erections?...or stop having erections at all? Men always lie and say even 80 year old men can have a great sex life...I know that is untruthful almost always.

I know men who are really insecure about asking women out , even if the girl agrees, because they worry about their penis size, their weight (stomach)...ect and what the woman will think once they become intimate....I figure this would only worsen for a guy who is over 40.


What is it like for a man being over 40 and having sex/being in the dating scene....What are your insecurities? How are they different from when you were 20?/ or have you always been insecure about your body?



I'm 56, don't do the Viagra thing, and tend to agree with Fishbrains.....
I have a better sex life now due to experience, no problems about getting up or staying up. However, I must admit that I do concentrate on my diet a lot to maintain (or re-supply, - if that is the correct term!) Testosterone levels and use a lot of muscle building supplements plus an active fitness and muscle maintaining routine.
Reducing cigarette smoking and cutting down completely on drinking (occasional glass of whiskey / glass of wine) has also been very beneficial.
I would hate to lose the active life (sexually and otherwise) so keep working at staying healthy in this regard.
Confidence levels are pretty high as a result. No insecurities - but then I never have stressed over anything or taken my work home.
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Old 02-22-2012, 05:35 PM
 
Location: USA
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Just hit 40 and the only difference between now and 25 is I'm in better shape and I know what a woman wants. As far as recovery goes, if I'm taking my time and shes stimulating I can go at least twice and sometimes three with no recovery needed.
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Old 02-22-2012, 05:38 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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I'm 44 & my sex drive is just as good as it was when I was in my 20's.
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Old 02-22-2012, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Just hit 40 and the only difference between now and 25 is I'm in better shape and I know what a woman wants. As far as recovery goes, if I'm taking my time and shes stimulating I can go at least twice and sometimes three with no recovery needed.
What a woman wants? What one woman wants may turn another completely off. Same with men of course.
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Old 02-22-2012, 05:45 PM
 
Location: USA
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What a woman wants? What one woman wants may turn another completely off. Same with men of course.
Of course, and thats one of the factors that determines capatibilty.
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Old 02-22-2012, 05:46 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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41 and no problems here. My only problem is keeping a 4 year old asleep and out of our bedroom.

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Old 02-22-2012, 06:15 PM
 
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This is leading cause of ED in older men :
I agree! I suspect that is the same reason so many men look at younger women when it comes to finding someone for a relationship. I much prefer the mind of an older woman, but sometimes the mind and the body just don't click. Men don't have to have a belly if they get some exercise and eat the right food, same goes for women. As far as erections go, I think it depends a great deal on how healthy the man is and what he had done to maintain good health. Certain medicines will cause a problem for erections, but even with blood pressure medicine I know of at least one guy in his seventies that still has an erection on occasion. Men get excited about visual things, women usually don't. While we are on the subject, most older men know there is more than one way to satisfy a woman, the conversation has to come to a stand still for awhile, however.

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