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I'd hate to burst everyone's bubble... but he was really BORING. And I kept repeating to myself "dude you're killing me" the whole time he was talking about venture capitalism and investment....... And I had such high hopes. BORING.
People of the world, can you please tell me how to not be bored? How can I fall in love? Or make myself fall in love, if that is possible, with a nice decent guy like this who has a good education, is trustworthy, and has a good career?
Also what's wrong with me. because he is/was very compatible.
and the whole time he was talking I just said "mm hm mm hm" and was kind of zoning off.
People of the world, can you please tell me how to not be bored? How can I fall in love? Or make myself fall in love, if that is possible, with a nice decent guy like this who has a good education, is trustworthy, and has a good career?
Also what's wrong with me. because he is/was very compatible.
and the whole time he was talking I just said "mm hm mm hm" and was kind of zoning off.
If the conversation is really that dull to you, change the subject...talk about things with him, that interest you
ETA: If this guy really is truly nice and otherwise compatible with you, at least consider giving him a chance for a second date, with you? To possibly give him a second chance perhaps, to win your heart?
People of the world, can you please tell me how to not be bored? How can I fall in love? Or make myself fall in love, if that is possible, with a nice decent guy like this who has a good education, is trustworthy, and has a good career?
Also what's wrong with me. because he is/was very compatible.
and the whole time he was talking I just said "mm hm mm hm" and was kind of zoning off.
He was probably just bloviating trying to impress you..... but if you are bored, then you're bored..... if boredom with a bunch of men happens... then you need to look inward... otherwise it could just be simply you're not a good fit.....
People of the world, can you please tell me how to not be bored? How can I fall in love? Or make myself fall in love, if that is possible, with a nice decent guy like this who has a good education, is trustworthy, and has a good career?
Also what's wrong with me. because he is/was very compatible.
and the whole time he was talking I just said "mm hm mm hm" and was kind of zoning off.
Well gee then, I don't know 1987. How is your reaction when a super hot chic strolls by?? Hmmmm???
It happens. I do agree he might of been trying to impress you. And yes change the topic but do it as if you are still corresponding to his topic so he doesn't feel that you don't care. I think it's up to you to make it easygoing or fun. Mostguys can talk your ear off believe me.
A guy doesn't try to impress every girl, only the ones that he likes. Perhaps he saw something in you that he found attractive. And considering that he was speaking of venture capitalism, at least it sounds like he has a decent head on his shoulders. Better than the guys from the Jersey Shore, I'll tell you that much.
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