Nervous (dating, guy, love, 2015)

[sydney1987]

I have a date coming up with this guy.... but I'm nervous in an OMG maybe this isn't such a good idea puke my guts out kind of way.

Would it make sense at this point to just abandon ship? Which is kind of what I seem to want to do anyway I guess.... He seems like he could be nice but I have my doubts and I don't really want to be disappointed. I'm so confused.

[himain]

You're bailing before knowing anything yet..That's not right. If you two don't click, then do not see him again. Who knows?? You could be missing out on something great!

You never know until you take a chance

[*Sixy*]

Is there a reason you are feeling like you want to vomit? Is he sending off a creepy vibe or is it just nerves?

If it's just nerves ...GO ON THE DATE!

You will settle down once you get acquanited and you'll have a great time, and if you don't...chalk it up to a learning experience and move on to the next guy.

[swmrbird]

Originally Posted by justthe6ofus

Is there a reason you are feeling like you want to vomit? Is he sending off a creepy vibe or is it just nerves?

If it's just nerves ...GO ON THE DATE!

You will settle down once you get acquanited and you'll have a great time, and if you don't...chalk it up to a learning experience and move on to the next guy.

^ Yep, that. Unless you feel unsafe, go.

[Chowhound]

Stop thinking.....

Just go.... see if you have a good time.....

Get dressed up..... be causal, be flirty, be fun.

Be safe too.

[Raena77]

Why are you so nervous? Don't be a wuss give it a try!!! Plus if it's in public you should be fine. I had doosies and great ones. You will be fine! If you need help I will help ya!

[90sman]

Haha, this reminds me of how I felt just before my high school graduation. I was so extremely nervous that I couldn't eat and I literally almost decided to not be in the ceremony. But I did go through with the ceremony and I'm glad I did.

Just go on this date, and if it turns out well, you'll be glad you went! If it didn't turn out well, oh well.

[Knight2009]

Why not at least give him a chance? You may be pleasantly surprised...

Originally Posted by sydney1987

I have a date coming up with this guy.... but I'm nervous in an OMG maybe this isn't such a good idea puke my guts out kind of way.

Would it make sense at this point to just abandon ship? Which is kind of what I seem to want to do anyway I guess.... He seems like he could be nice but I have my doubts and I don't really want to be disappointed. I'm so confused.

[Funny how?]

Originally Posted by sydney1987

I have a date coming up with this guy.... but I'm nervous in an OMG maybe this isn't such a good idea puke my guts out kind of way.

Would it make sense at this point to just abandon ship? Which is kind of what I seem to want to do anyway I guess.... He seems like he could be nice but I have my doubts and I don't really want to be disappointed. I'm so confused.

Confused? Puking your guts out? Oh, c'mon now, it's just a date! You're not going off to war or anything, right?

Remember what they say, "no guts, no glory", right? Yeah, corney to be sure, but still. Oh, and, how about "nothing ventured, nothing gained"? So get out there and gain something from your dating venture. Just don't puke. Not on the guy anyway.

And it may help to keep in mind what Caesar said(not the salad guy)--"Vene, vidi, vici"!! (I came, I saw, I conquered). So you go, conquer that date!

And also keep in mind what George S. Patton said--"Americans love to fight. All real Americans love the sting of battle" Oh wait. Never mind.

[sydney1987]

I'd hate to burst everyone's bubble... but he was really BORING. And I kept repeating to myself "dude you're killing me" the whole time he was talking about venture capitalism and investment....... And I had such high hopes. BORING.