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View Poll Results: Do you think that most hot guys/girls are taken when you first see them?
Yes 43 55.13%
No 26 33.33%
Maybe/I don't know 9 11.54%
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Old 08-16-2011, 03:23 PM
 
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I don't assume taken. I assume stuck up because the majority of hot girls I've met have been stuck up. Then again, I grew up in south Florida where bleach blonde hair, party girls, and gold diggers are the norm.
This is true. They have attitude issues. More nicer as they get old though. I heard girls in Miami are not nice either.
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Old 08-16-2011, 03:25 PM
 
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Here in the Bay Area, absolutely yes. When I lived in the Midwest and back East, I wasn't as sure.
True, and girls are not nice either. I lived in San Jose for quite sometime.
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Old 08-16-2011, 03:30 PM
 
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Miami as a whole is garbage. I grew up half an hour from Miami. It's an extremely dangerous area, crime is high, and the people...we won't go there.

Those girls get nicer as they get older because the guys they threw themselves after are still going after the young 20-somethings and now that these women are 30+, the guys don't want them anymore.
And to think there was a time I wanted to go to Miami. Ever since coming on these forums I've heard nothing but bad things.
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Old 08-16-2011, 03:43 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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True, and girls are not nice either. I lived in San Jose for quite sometime.
You got that right....major, major attitudes!

Some posters in other parts of the country talk about women getting nicer with age. Out here is is just the opposite....
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Old 08-16-2011, 03:45 PM
 
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Then how is it that I'm not always taken? JK

But seriously, if you wanna determine for yourself, see my profile pics
Either guys in your area are fools or they do not measure up to what you are looking for
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Old 08-16-2011, 03:47 PM
 
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Here in the Bay Area, absolutely yes. When I lived in the Midwest and back East, I wasn't as sure.
Well the male to female ratio in the bay area is enormous up there so it's not surprising.
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Old 08-16-2011, 03:52 PM
 
Location: colorado
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I always do. I always assume that really hot guys are taken and I have no chance with them even if they were available. I guess I have this notion that the really hot guys know they're hot and can get any girl they want and are jerks about it. I know not all hot guys are jerks or players, but I just can't bring myself to really chat with them unless it's necessary.

What about you guys? Do you think very attractive men or women are taken when you see them?

Not all the time,
Everyone assumes I'm always in a relationship even at the times when I was single. I get so many why are you single?
See I never think any guy is too hot for me...yes there are lots of hot guys, but I dont have any problems getting men.
Most guys are friendly, just be friendly back..
No not all hot guy are players, its just like saying all hot girls are players and that just isn't true..
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Old 08-16-2011, 04:06 PM
 
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Doesn't bother me that someone is taken or not taken. I like people and if someone is interesting to me I am going to talk to them. The better looking the more interesting if you ask me. LOL I am just all about the making a new friend thing. Why would anyone miss the opportunity to make a new friend just because they think that someone is taken? You see some hawt looking person and you don't talk to them because they might not be single? Makes no sence to me. You don't talk to them because your thinking that other hawt looking people may have never noticed you before so this new hawt looking person also will not notice you. You don't talk to them because they are in a differant league than you are? All these reasons not to talk to someone are a big joke.

First off they are just people like everyone else. Let them decide if they will answer back or not. Let them decide if they will befriend you. Let them decide what they will do. You can not decide what someone else will do. Let them do that. Still before someone can decide to be your friend they need to either make contact or have you make contact. Forget about wondering if they are single. At this point your not trying to date them just become their friend. Maybe you want to date them. Still take the time to find out about them. Lets say that you find out that they are seeing someone else. So what. People do break up. People do move on. How cool for you to be the person that is there for them after the breakup. Someone breaks up and just wants a friend to hang out with. Your the friend. Lucky you. Lets say that the friendship develops into something else. Lucky you. Then again it would have never happened if you had missed the opportunity to become friends with them because they were taken.
I'm sorry but I just don't agree with this. If you have strong feelings for someone but they're taken it really is best to break all contact with that person or at least limit contact as much as you can. To hang around someone you want but can't have will just cause unecessary pain.
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Old 08-17-2011, 03:15 AM
 
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This is true. They have attitude issues. More nicer as they get old though. I heard girls in Miami are not nice either.
I surprisingly met some nice girls in Miami (South Beach). I've always had better luck with Hispanic girls than I did with White/Caucasian girls. Of course I've also had better luck with Asian girls too, as I mentioned in many other threads, but not that many of them in the case of Miami. However, Los Angeles (another city with a reputation of girls being stuck-up, shallow, and superficial) has a good selection for me as long as I stick with Hispanics or Asians, and not the white blonde types.
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Old 08-17-2011, 05:38 AM
 
Location: Gone
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No. Why would I think anything if there is a hot guy front of me
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