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i know i am speculating somewhat. but things typically are how they look. obviously there could be other reason, but flowers on a non birthday or holiday 99% of the time from a date. She wouldn't have bought them herself if she is allergic.
I've sent flowers to my girlfriends in the past when they've done favors for me, been there for me, etc. You could just ask her.
I don't think that dating someone for 3 months, then not seeing them for 3 months will go very well. It's asking a lot of someone too early on in my opinion. I did tell her that I'd be into the idea of more serious relationship when I get back, whether with her or someone else.
hmmmm I'll bet THAT went over like a lead filled condom.
hmmmm I'll bet THAT went over like a lead filled condom.
yeah, i know..poor way to word things. i didn't tell her that. i just said when i met her that i wouldn't be that into dating until that time, because i'll be leaving. but then naturally i'd be either dating her or someone else. it's just a given for anyone, unless i'm totally dateless of course.
I'm not sure what your question is, FelixTheCat. I reread the first post and it sounds like you are asking if she should have made more of an attempt to hide the flowers from you.
If that's the question, then my answer is "No". Why should she?
I'm not sure what your question is, FelixTheCat. I reread the first post and it sounds like you are asking if she should have made more of an attempt to hide the flowers from you.
If that's the question, then my answer is "No". Why should she?
it would have been strange to hide them, but then she did the exact opposite, which was talk about them. why would someone even do that? the garage is used by another family too, so i could have just though that the flowers weren't hers. i don't know, maybe she wanted to make me jealous or brag about how someone likes her.
obviously it isn't cheating to see other people if you are not exclusive, but at the same time, i've never had anyone talk about stuff having to do with others they are seeing, especially if not asked. like i wouldn't say, "oh, there's the restaurant i took this woman to last night"
even if you are not exclusive, i have noticed people do not want to know details about their other dates. for example several years ago i had met two women around the same time, so i was seeing them at the same time early on. i took one to a particular restaurant. later that week the other specifically asked to go to the same restaurant as we drove by it. so we did and the stupid waiter asked about the other girl and the girl i was with got mad. even though you aren't exclusive, people most of the time don't want to know what else you've got going on.
Maybe she bought them herself in order to plant just that idea in your head!
I worked with this dysfunctional couple where the woman did just that.
It was hilarious. One Valentines day her boyfriend sent her flowers to the workplace but by the time he got there his little vase of red roses was surrounded by all kinds of bigger vases with bigger roses, all different colors. White, pink, peach.
Her friends said she was sending flowers to herself, spending a lot of her paycheck just to make him furious. Or maybe she liked his jealousy but whatever it was, it worked. He would get fuming mad seeing her get all those flowers.
I worked with this dysfunctional couple where the woman did just that.
It was hilarious. One Valentines day her boyfriend sent her flowers to the workplace but by the time he got there his little vase of red roses was surrounded by all kinds of bigger vases with bigger roses, all different colors. White, pink, peach.
Her friends said she was sending flowers to herself, spending a lot of her paycheck just to make him furious. Or maybe she liked his jealousy but whatever it was, it worked. He would get fuming mad seeing her get all those flowers.
i hope someone told him.
and another 2 things i just realized seems like she is trying to make me jealous. she mentioned 2 Exs that are still sometimes interested in her. everyone knows you aren't supposed to mention stuff like that. and what's also funny is that she is making up minor stuff to get jealous about. like i started a story that went like..."this lady called me today..." she interrupted and said "to ask you out?" No, it was a customer.
we aren't fighting about such things. i mostly act like nothing when they come up. but it's kind of funny.
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