What am I doing wrong? Can't get a date (dating, girls, loving)
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I am good looking guy, good job, good shape, single, no kids, my own house and car but I can't get a good looking girl.
I see a lot of slouches that have these good looking women on their side and i am not sure how they do it. Some these guys I know and some are even unemployed and i still do not know how they pull in these good looking women.
What am I doing wrong? The only thing that I can see wrong with me is that I can be a bit shy at first but nothing else...
Please advise.
Take advice from men that are successful in that regard first and foremost.
Do not take advice from the zillions of "What Women Want in a Man" type articles (written by women) you see online. That's what the "nice guys" do and their results are far less than stellar.
And no, this has nothing to do with gender bashing.
I am good looking guy, good job, good shape, single, no kids, my own house and car but I can't get a good looking girl.
I see a lot of slouches that have these good looking women on their side and i am not sure how they do it. Some these guys I know and some are even unemployed and i still do not know how they pull in these good looking women.
What am I doing wrong? The only thing that I can see wrong with me is that I can be a bit shy at first but nothing else...
Please advise.
Lot of women don't like shy guys even at first sight. It shows a lack of confidence to them. Are you from UAE?
You're not shy, you're not even picky, you're arrogant and shallow. What are you offering? What is there about you that you should have ANY date, nevermind one with a "good-looking girl"? Come on, tell us about YOU - not about your possessions, Mr. Shallow; not about how you look, Hal. Tell us about YOU.
And that is your answer. NOTHING. You have nothing to offer a relationship. There are SOME women who only care about your bank account, they will be around when you start flashing your bankroll. Go hang out in a casino; tip well so you get to hang out in the high roller lounge. Look around you when you come out - some woman will be wtaching and funny how she'll find her way by your side when you get back to the table. There's your date with an attractive (outwardly) woman.
The guitar is not going to get you anywhere shug.
Maybe after sealing the deal you can romance her one night with a nice tune but you better let the guitar collect some dust before something else starts collecting dust.
The gym shouldn't take up too much time.
Do this today... after work go to happy hour. Go to a restaurant with a bar (more relaxed) and I'm sure you will meet some lady there. Look at her, smile (force it) and say "rough/long day eh?" and you'll start a conversation... if she is at all interested. 1 2 3
This. I have a saying: "It doesn't matter how good the product is if nobody knows it exists".
You're probably not doing anything wrong other than that. I write from personal experience.
And, as Braunwyn asked another poster in another thread, "are you the kind of person you would go out with?" Other than being attractive, what qualities are you looking for in a woman? Do you have similar qualities?
You're not shy, you're not even picky, you're arrogant and shallow. What are you offering? What is there about you that you should have ANY date, nevermind one with a "good-looking girl"?
C'mon, that is way harsh. He's not arrogant, he just knows he's a good catch, so what? It's not like he says he's God's gift to women.
You're not shy, you're not even picky, you're arrogant and shallow. What are you offering? What is there about you that you should have ANY date, nevermind one with a "good-looking girl"? Come on, tell us about YOU - not about your possessions, Mr. Shallow; not about how you look, Hal. Tell us about YOU.
And that is your answer. NOTHING. You have nothing to offer a relationship. There are SOME women who only care about your bank account, they will be around when you start flashing your bankroll. Go hang out in a casino; tip well so you get to hang out in the high roller lounge. Look around you when you come out - some woman will be wtaching and funny how she'll find her way by your side when you get back to the table. There's your date with an attractive (outwardly) woman.
He already stated what he is offering. How can you tell he has noting to offer? You were not with the OP now a girl have given him a chance.
Take advice from men that are successful in that regard first and foremost.
Do not take advice from the zillions of "What Women Want in a Man" type articles (written by women) you see online. That's what the "nice guys" do and their results are far less than stellar.
And no, this has nothing to do with gender bashing.
Thats right. Men date women. Women should get advice from women also.
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