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This only works if you and your sibling are of the opposite sex. I also wrote "hit on" but meant "worked on" because it is done rather indirectly or innocently, since he or she cannot be obvious about it.
My friend's sister's boyfriend always tries to do things with my friend's girlfriend. We recently went on a trip and I finally saw what my friend was saying.
Examples:
Trying to make inside jokes with her.
When we are in a group, talking to her specifically / asking her questions specifically.
Intentionally talking about things that he knows she wants or likes (for instance talking about foods or music she mentioned).
Very blantantly checking her out when she bends over or is walking up stairs.
She was outside at night gazing at the stars and he came outside after her to look up at the stars with her.
Going out of his way to do things for her like carried her bags down (when his own GF wanted help with hers and had to ask).
Just wanted to share. I noticed it because he mentioned it to me. It seems very deceptive and sort of like he's slowly trying to win her over or create some weird connection with her.
This only works if you and your sibling are of the opposite sex. I also wrote "hit on" but meant "worked on" because it is done rather indirectly or innocently, since he or she cannot be obvious about it.
My friend's sister's boyfriend always tries to do things with my friend's girlfriend. We recently went on a trip and I finally saw what my friend was saying.
Examples:
Trying to make inside jokes with her.
When we are in a group, talking to her specifically / asking her questions specifically.
Intentionally talking about things that he knows she wants or likes (for instance talking about foods or music she mentioned).
Very blantantly checking her out when she bends over or is walking up stairs.
She was outside at night gazing at the stars and he came outside after her to look up at the stars with her.
Going out of his way to do things for her like carried her bags down (when his own GF wanted help with hers and had to ask).
Just wanted to share. I noticed it because he mentioned it to me. It seems very deceptive and sort of like he's slowly trying to win her over or create some weird connection with her.
Do the two of them actually have much in common? How does friend's girlfriend respond to this attention? Does she blow it off, or reciprocate?
Is your friend usually jealous? Because he/she clearly is right now, and that may create more of a problem for their relationship than any actual "working on" that your friend's sister's boyfriend may (or may not) be doing.
I think your friend's sister's boyfriend has got the hots for your friend's girlfriend, and he better watch out.
Does the classic Beatles song "You're Gonna Lose That Girl" sound a bell?
IMO, it seems like young woman are more oblivious about these situation. When my friend liked me and I didn't know. I thought he was being nice until my friend told me my senior year that he liked me. Oh well. Sometimes I still am.
His girlfriend is not used to being hit on, so it seems like normal friends-interaction to her. She reciprocates, but not in a flirty way, just in a friendly way.
My friend is not the jealous type and is very confident. He told me he didn't expect it from his sister's BF and he has to take matters into his own hands, since he doesn't understand the boundaries or is not respecting them. He definitely assuaged the situation by doing little things here and there.
Young girls can definitely be oblivious because of inexperience.
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