Giving up the goodies - Need a male perspective (guys, sex, call)

[westcoastbabe]

Need some input here.....After you been seeing a someone for about 3months...and you decide to give up the goodies and he turns you down.Would like to know from guys....why do you do that.....I mean do u get off on it....because personally i think its sick.

[Dewdrop93]

I think you need to ask THAT guy - not all guys.

[Prince_Frog]

This is a question that we probably can't give the right answer to. He refused to have sex with you, and there are many reasons as to why he didn't want it.

You should ask him, don't be blunt, but make sure he understands the question and your concern.

[Mr. Humble]

Originally Posted by westcoastbabe

Need some input here.....After you been seeing a someone for about 3months...and you decide to give up the goodies and he turns you down.Would like to know from guys....why do you do that.....I mean do u get off on it....because personally i think its sick.

I agree with you. It is sick. Honestly never waited three whole months for the goodies.

Did you make him wait? If so, he's either getting back at you (equally sick), has decided that he'd rather have you as just a friend, or is gay.

[westcoastbabe]

the guy is a coward....cant get a text or a phone call now....which i resorted to asking this online... Guy has been acting interested the whole 3 months....going out, etc....and then wham...he wants to pull the stunt of all stunts.....Just not right. The ego is a bit bruised and confused.

[Aganusn]

I'm still wondering why he's still seeing you after not having sex for 3 months. But yes.....you need to ask him and not us.

[Mr. Humble]

Originally Posted by westcoastbabe

the guy is a coward....cant get a text or a phone call now....which i resorted to asking this online... Guy has been acting interested the whole 3 months....going out, etc....and then wham...he wants to pull the stunt of all stunts.....Just not right. The ego is a bit bruised and confused.

You never saw any signs of this part of his personality? This kind of small, spiteful part? Do you normally make guys wait three months? What kept you both interested all this time?

[westcoastbabe]

Originally Posted by Mr. Humble

I agree with you. It is sick. Honestly never waited three whole months for the goodies.

Did you make him wait? If so, he's either getting back at you (equally sick), has decided that he'd rather have you as just a friend, or is gay.

To be honest did not want to wait the 3 months...just that busy schedules didnt allow for it.....We both work 2 jobs....

[Mr. Humble]

Originally Posted by westcoastbabe

To be honest did not want to wait the 3 months...just that busy schedules didnt allow for it.....

Oh, ok. But when you rounded first and second base, was his passion intense? I ask this, because he may not be a very sexual guy. Believe it or not, they do exist.

[westcoastbabe]

Honestly, i feel like i have been "played"..... I mean we are both 40.......Enough with the d@mn games all ready.