Will she come back? (dating, boyfriend, women, love)
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I reconnected with an old female friend from 20 years ago.We started dating and hit it off big time! I wined and dined her, she told me numerous times that I was the best thing ever to come along in her life and that we had a connection, that she was so happy and I made her feel special ect ect. Were both 42.We talked about a future together too.
Well 2 weeks she told me she was going back to her ex boyfriend. They dated for 14 months.She told me they had a fight (before we reconnected)and he just up and left, and that also he just wasn't there for her and didn't meet her needs.I was so good to her and she knows it,and said it! We dated for 9 months.
Will she come back to me after she sees it's just the same old crap with him? I'm doing the no contact thing.
I reconnected with an old female friend from 20 years ago.We started dating and hit it off big time! I wined and dined her, she told me numerous times that I was the best thing ever to come along in her life and that we had a connection, that she was so happy and I made her feel special ect ect. Were both 42.We talked about a future together too.
Well 2 weeks she told me she was going back to her ex boyfriend. They dated for 14 months.She told me they had a fight (before we reconnected)and he just up and left, and that also he just wasn't there for her and didn't meet her needs.I was so good to her and she knows it,and said it! We dated for 9 months.
Will she come back to me after she sees it's just the same old crap with him? I'm doing the no contact thing.
Don't count on it and be happy about it. I can't tell if this is serious or not, but how have you lived 42 years and not know that this is not a woman you want to be around? Common sense pal. Also it's etc not ect.
Why do u say don't count on it. I guess the reason I want her back is I/we did have a real connection. We both thought it was so cool to re- hook up after so many years and besides,, we clicked
When she comes back tell her it's not going to work. Your other option is to let her back in your life with open arms until the Ex. comes back in her life again. People are not the same as they were 20 years ago.. If you are even asking this question once she comes back you'll take her but remember this.... If it's not the other person it's you..
I reconnected with an old female friend from 20 years ago.We started dating and hit it off big time! I wined and dined her, she told me numerous times that I was the best thing ever to come along in her life and that we had a connection, that she was so happy and I made her feel special ect ect. Were both 42.We talked about a future together too.
Well 2 weeks she told me she was going back to her ex boyfriend. They dated for 14 months.She told me they had a fight (before we reconnected)and he just up and left, and that also he just wasn't there for her and didn't meet her needs.I was so good to her and she knows it,and said it! We dated for 9 months.
Will she come back to me after she sees it's just the same old crap with him? I'm doing the no contact thing.
Chalk up another nice guy doing it right but at the same time doing it wrong.
BTW she knows she gutted you, to take her and try to get her back would only enforce her lack of respect for you.
Dude, you hooked up with a woman that in the back of her mind knows what happiness is suppose to be as far as goodness, honesty and all that but is put off by it at the same time. Some people can't handle that stuff, some people would rather be challenged in life.
Don't you know that if a girl brings you home to the parents and the parents love you that pretty much dooms you with her? Same deal, every knows the right way things are suppose to be but run away from it.......
Will she come back to me after she sees it's just the same old crap with him? I'm doing the no contact thing.
She may, the next time he dumps her and then you'll be the best thing that ever came into her life, again. Is this the kind of relationship you really want?
Yea in the back of my mind I know all that stuff but it's just a hard time now for me. I know she loved me but I know now I loved her more. It just makes me wonder why she went back to the guy that didn't meet her needs.Do you think she went back one last to see if it can work, to fix it or fix him??? Do women usually come back after situations like this???
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