What are your thoughts on............ (marrying, mistress, cheating, affair)

[JoeandFamily]

Originally Posted by mjb68-19

Haven't you guys seen the picture of Joe at work over in the Other Topics forum? LOL

Yea my job is very laid back. THE VPs throw the F bomb here and there...

And what about my pic MJ....Is that a bad thing, me being at work?

[da jammer]

I'm lucky to get a handshake from my wife let alone get all giggley with some other doods squeeze

[itchy_nose]

Originally Posted by JoeandFamily

What do you think of Swinger couples.. Or just swingers in general.

This is what my co-workers and I chat about..

Not for me

At first, I thought you were actually talking about SWING couples as in dancing but then whats so controversial in that so I guess its the other swinger couples haha.

[JoeandFamily]

JUST TO CLARIFY....I AM NOT A SWINGER...Been getting messages with people thinking I am.

[Marylandkitten]

Originally Posted by JoeandFamily

JUST TO CLARIFY....I AM NOT A SWINGER...Been getting messages with people thinking I am.

oh JOE....

Gettin hit on again?

[Mooseketeer]

Yuck, yuck, yuck... I find it morally repugnant and do not understand how anybody would want to "share" a loved one sexually with anybody.
I don't see how you can love someone, be their kindred spirit and see them get off with somebody else. If you truly love someone seeing them with somebody else would be just too painful I don't find that liberated ,just abhorrent and really twisted.
People always say "consenting adults, blah,blah,blah...." but I have always had a slight suspicion that one partner is always more willing than the other and that pleasing your partner has a lot to do with accepting to do something which is not truly your "cup of tea". I think a lot of people will feel pressurised into it when they actually hate it and feel really uncomfortable.

Swinging to me is showing a completely immature and irresponsible attitude to sex and relationships in general. Why even bother getting married if you want to have sex with other people ? Why just not stay single ?
Sex is the most intimate way to share yourself with somebody and swinging to me just cheapens it, makes it tawdry and sleazy. Also I would question your sexual and emotional happiness if your own wife/husband/partner is not good enough for you to satisfy you sexually. I would be devastated if I found out I wasn't enough for my other half.
It's a pretty grim admission of failure on both parts and really quite a depressing thought.

[Rapture]

I've known a few swingers and it never works out, it's like asking for trouble. Why would anyone put themselves in that situation? Just stay single if you want to sleep around.

[Torn2pieces]

Originally Posted by Rapture

I've known a few swingers and it never works out, it's like asking for trouble. Why would anyone put themselves in that situation? Just stay single if you want to sleep around.

Exactly!!!!!!!!!

[JoeandFamily]

Originally Posted by Arctic Kitten

oh JOE....

Gettin hit on again?

No not getting hit on...Just remarks...

[Rosa canina]

I wonder how many people who engage in this lifestyle are doing it because they truly desire to or because they are being pressured into it by a spouse.

I think that that way of life is absolutely silly.