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Old 08-24-2011, 12:56 PM
 
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I am going to be blunt for a moment.,.....


Should women start accepting cheating from a man as long as he doesn't bring it home or make it very obvious?..disrespectful....

And just to add support, I have spoken to females who say that they don't care if their man is cheating, as long as they are not being disrespected and use protection.

In 2011, I cannot understand why a woman would be surprised if their man/husband cheated.
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Old 08-24-2011, 12:58 PM
 
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From a no-good, low-down, piece of shi% man...the answer is 'yes'--suck it up.

From a good father, husband, and more importantly--human being...dump the jack-azz.

Best of luck.
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Old 08-24-2011, 12:58 PM
 
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I'd be surprised if someone said they would accept this. I for one, will never.
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Old 08-24-2011, 12:59 PM
 
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Why should cheating be accepted? It is already disrespectful, now matter how their husbands try to hide it.
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Old 08-24-2011, 01:00 PM
 
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And by the same token, since it is 2011, should men start to accept that their woman is cheating and lying behind their back as long as she didn't bring it home and used protection?
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Old 08-24-2011, 01:03 PM
 
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I am going to be blunt for a moment.,.....


Should women start accepting cheating from a man as long as he doesn't bring it home or make it very obvious?..disrespectful....

And just to add support, I have spoken to females who say that they don't care if their man is cheating, as long as they are not being disrespected and use protection.

In 2011, I cannot understand why a woman would be surprised if their man/husband cheated.
Why should women accept cheating from anyone, under any conditions???

Do men really expect so little from themselves that they think there's a reasonable case that justifies their cheating?

If you're looking for help in justifying your having treated a woman so badly, you're in the wrong place, guy.
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Old 08-24-2011, 01:03 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I am going to be blunt for a moment.,.....


Should women start accepting cheating from a man as long as he doesn't bring it home or make it very obvious?..disrespectful....

And just to add support, I have spoken to females who say that they don't care if their man is cheating, as long as they are not being disrespected and use protection.

In 2011, I cannot understand why a woman would be surprised if their man/husband cheated.
No amount of excuses is going to make cheating "okay", so quit trying

Not only would I be surprised, I would not tolerate it - but then I am in a covenantal marriage with my husband and God himself. And none of us plan on disappointing the others
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Old 08-24-2011, 01:03 PM
 
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I am going to be blunt for a moment.,.....


Should women start accepting cheating from a man as long as he doesn't bring it home or make it very obvious?..disrespectful....

And just to add support, I have spoken to females who say that they don't care if their man is cheating, as long as they are not being disrespected and use protection.

In 2011, I cannot understand why a woman would be surprised if their man/husband cheated.
Is this another one of those tiresome "All men cheat" threads? Seriously? All men don't cheat, and women typically cheat in equal numbers.
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Old 08-24-2011, 01:06 PM
 
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Just because people are doing it, doesn't make it right. I honestly wouldn't accept by SO accepting it. Cheating destroys the underlying principles that a relationship is founded on - trust, mutual respect, intimacy... once you lose those, there isn't a relationship.
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Old 08-24-2011, 01:06 PM
 
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Is this another one of those tiresome "All men cheat" threads? Seriously? All men don't cheat, and women typically cheat in equal numbers.

lol not at all. i am just asking the questions.......
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