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Old 08-29-2011, 07:10 AM
 
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What?
He lives under a rock too long. He thinks he's right and women are alike.
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Old 08-29-2011, 07:17 AM
 
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I wouldn't marry, period. But if I were to, a prior divorce wouldn't matter. What if the woman had the crap kicked out of her everyday?
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Old 08-29-2011, 07:28 AM
 
Location: On our boat!
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I've been divorced twice and my wife was also and our marriage is just fine and VERY loving! After we met, we explained to each other what caused our divorces and doing that "explaining" helped us understand each other much more. We are early Baby Boomers, so there could be quite a bit of age difference from us and the OP.
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Old 08-29-2011, 09:44 AM
 
Location: Loveland Colorado
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Here is the logic my father used before marrying his second wife. “If you are going to go on an expedition into the jungle, who do you want as your traveling companion? Do you want someone who has been in the jungle before and got caught in the quicksand? or do you want someone who has never been to the jungle but has read all the books?”

25 Questions you are going to want to have an answer to before you marry someone who is divorced
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Old 08-29-2011, 10:45 AM
 
Location: The Jar
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Mehhh...

Well, just about everyone I know has been married and divorce at least once.

I am the exception to the rule!

21 years ago, I married the first and only time .

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Old 08-29-2011, 10:48 AM
 
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It depends on the reason why they divorced. If a woman divorced because her ex-husband committed adultery, then yes. But if a woman divorced her former husband for money or whatever, then no.
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Old 08-29-2011, 11:54 AM
 
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He lives under a rock too long. He thinks he's right and women are alike.
Which is why he's probably never actually going to face such a dilemma in the first place.
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Old 08-29-2011, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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People over 30 or so usually don't have many other options.
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Old 08-29-2011, 01:45 PM
 
Location: On our boat!
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Very, VERY good point here! Must rep you for this!

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People over 30 or so usually don't have many other options.
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Old 08-30-2011, 05:53 AM
 
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From the ppl I know it is never their fault they are divorced it is always the other person who caused the problems. Just ask a couple who divorced and they will tell you it was the other person's fault because he did this or she did that.
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