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I think people are misunderstanding you because you are singling out the sexual aspect of a relationship, kind of like focusing on the icing more than the entire cake. It sounds to me like you just want to have a regular girlfriend, one whose company you enjoy who also likes sex.
There is nothing wrong with that.
Precisely. This is a case of false advertising. He was asking for some (or a lot of) sex in the headline and then as you read on, it was all about a meaningful relationship!
Precisely. This is a case of false advertising. He was asking for some (or a lot of) sex in the headline and then as you read on, it was all about a meaningful relationship!
I want a lot of sex in a meaningful relationship. Is that clear enough now? (18 pages on *rolls eyes*)
I just feel terrible as a person that I've never had a relationship before, that's all. I finished college a few years ago and have been focusing on life/work, but last year I finally joined a dating site to see where things go. This past Saturday was probably the highlight of my entire experience with the dating site and it wasn't even a real date! (according to her and her previous relationship baggage) I just want to keep the highlight going and I want a girl to like me. And I really wouldn't mind at all if it was Saturday "date" girl......she really was absolutely great.
I'm just afraid I'll only ever be a friend in her eyes. That's unacceptable.
Good grief! If you wanna go get laid, go do it. Find your local bar or college campus and go get some tail. There is plenty of it out there. If you want to speed things up, go find a wh*re and pay her. Good luck.
PS- Nothing wrong with wanting sex only. People make sex WAAAAAAAY bigger than what it is. They add all kinds of stipulations and rules. Have fun and protect yourself.
It can be difficult for some to appreciate your point when they worry about being judged as mysoginistic by women or weak by immature guys.
Disclaimer: Have been married to a hot woman who's a perfect partner, best friend, wife, and amazing lover for 10 years.
We all want to get laid. But a lot of guys also want that steady long term relationship with a woman he genuinely likes and loves for more than just sex.
Before I met my wife, I got discouraged. I was never a one night stand guy, but it seemed like I could either get amazing sex, OR a long-term relationship )with only mediocre sex that I always felt like the woman was never really into). Maybe it was just bad luck, but anytime the sexual chemistry was there, the relationship was doomed from the start, but anytime we shared a lot in common that would make a good LTR, she was mediocre in bed, and just not that "into" sex. We had sex, but it always seemed like I had to talk her into it or something. Not literally, just that she never seemed to really WANT sex per se, she just went along with it. Or it was just infrequent, maybe once a week or so.
I started subconsciously telling myself that women were either great sex material, or marriage material, but not both.
My wife changed that view for me.
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