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Old 09-06-2011, 03:09 PM
 
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You know why certain guys sleep with so many attractive women? Because they know how to keep a secret

There's no secret. They know he's a player. They're even more attracted to him because other women want him. It's called social proof.
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Old 09-06-2011, 03:17 PM
 
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There's no secret. They know he's a player. They're even more attracted to him because other women want him. It's called social proof.
Social proof isn't a girl wanting a guy because he's slept with or is currently sleeping with many women.

Social proof is when a guy is surrounded by many attractive women and therefore is assumed he has attractive qualities and has immense knowledge and experience in the situation (being with girls).
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Old 09-06-2011, 03:19 PM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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You have no real life experience for any of these assumptions. You observe these beautiful girls interacting with alpha males and make misplaced assumptions.

Do you think creating a dialogue between two imaginary people about two other imaginary people gives your claim more clout and credibility?

You know why certain guys sleep with so many attractive women? Because they know how to keep a secret
If there's a fine girl, then every dude in my frat was trying to hit. And if they hit it, you seriously think that they weren't going to brag about it? I mean, do hunters go off in the wild and kill wild boars with a bow and arrow and then say, "Eh. We'll just keep this kill on the low low." Bedding a bodacious babe is one of the great pleasures in life for a man. Why would we ever keep that a secret?

If anything, the bigger problem is men lying about the sex they are not having.

And honestly, other women get the word out about a girl's sexual forays faster than men do. Other women hate on pretty women all the time, and there's nothing more many of them would like to see than the Pretty Princess be labeled a "sl*t."
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Old 09-06-2011, 03:26 PM
 
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If there's a fine girl, then every dude in my frat was trying to hit. And if they hit it, you seriously think that they weren't going to brag about it? I mean, do hunters go off in the wild and kill wild boars with a bow and arrow and then say, "Eh. We'll just keep this kill on the low low." Bedding a bodacious babe is one of the great pleasures in life for a man. Why would we ever keep that a secret?

And honestly, other women get the word out about a girl's sexual forays faster than men do. Other women hate on pretty women all the time, and there's nothing more many of them would like to see than the Pretty Princess be labeled a "sl*t."
I'm glad we can find a common background. In my fraternity I was one of the alpha dogs, amongst many of my fraternity brothers. Did we share stories about hot girls we bedded the night before at Sunday chapter meetings? Absolutely, some of the funniest, most ridiculous stories I've ever heard were from my fraternity brothers. But if you for a second think that we shared every night, every name and every detail, then you are not even in the same circle.

A gentleman never kisses and tells. And since that is impossible he has to pick and choose his stories...
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Old 09-06-2011, 03:26 PM
 
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Social proof isn't a girl wanting a guy because he's slept with or is currently sleeping with many women.

Social proof is when a guy is surrounded by many attractive women and therefore is assumed he has attractive qualities and has immense knowledge and experience in the situation (being with girls).

Both examples are examples of social proof. Women are more attracted to guys that are desired by other women. It's been proven by science, PUA's, and any guy with a limited amount of dating experience.
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Old 09-06-2011, 03:29 PM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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A gentleman never kisses and tells.
*BajanYankee gives the side eye*
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Old 09-06-2011, 03:30 PM
 
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Both examples are examples of social proof. Women are more attracted to guys that are desired by other women. It's been proven by science, PUA's, and any guy with a limited amount of dating experience.
All things being equal if a girl could choose the alpha male guy who's sleeping with 3 different women and has over 100 partners are the guy who's not sleeping with anyone and has had 10 partners, she would choose the latter. Sleeping with many different women is not desirable buddy, it's his ability and that he has many women who want to sleep with him that is desirable.
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Old 09-06-2011, 03:32 PM
 
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All things being equal if a girl could choose the alpha male guy who's sleeping with 3 different women and has over 100 partners are the guy who's not sleeping with anyone and has had 10 partners, she would choose the latter. Sleeping with many different women is not desirable buddy, it's his ability and that he has many women who want to sleep with him that is desirable.

She'll sleep with the former, but settle with the latter. That's the difference.
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Old 09-06-2011, 03:46 PM
 
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She'll sleep with the former, but settle with the latter. That's the difference.
Nah. She might sleep with either. She also might settle with either of them. But she would prefer the former for both sleeping and settling hence he would be more desirable.
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Old 09-06-2011, 04:04 PM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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But she would prefer the former for both sleeping and settling hence he would be more desirable.
Does this not completely contradict what you stated above?
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