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Old 09-06-2011, 07:19 PM
 
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lol

Wanting something you can't have is rather...tempting. But, alas, I try to be a decent human being. *kicks dirt*
Oh, darn it.
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Old 09-06-2011, 07:21 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Surrrrrrre you don't.....
Forums keep history, ya know...
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Old 09-06-2011, 07:52 PM
 
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Forums keep history, ya know...
I know
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Old 09-06-2011, 08:13 PM
 
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I once picked up a novel about Blacks' relationships without noticing. All the dudes were licking their lips a whole lot! Frankly, to me this is mighty weird!
Do you date Black guys?
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Old 09-06-2011, 08:18 PM
 
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Ronnie back again!


I was wondering about this because I am a very active dater, and most of the time I like the gal but not enough to want to pursue anything long term.

So it's been a while since I was in a situation where I "made a move". I only make a move with a gal that I really like.

I thought back on a few gals that I've dated when I was younger and new to the game, I missed signals all day long.


What do I mean by "make a move", when should a guy go for the first kiss?


What signals do you give? OR do you give any?
Here's what *I* do if I think a guy is into me but shy, hesitant, uncertain, whatnot. I kiss him passionately for about 4 seconds and then apologize profusely, "I'm sorry. Are you not ok with that?". If his reaction is anything besides "Let's do that again", then I don't kiss him anymore and I know where we stand.

BUT as a guy, I wouldn't do that to a girl, because guys can usually overpower a woman and it's scary for us to be manhandled by someone we're not attracted to. I would say wait for the signals, touching, hair twirling, verbal hints, smiling big, laughing, eye contact, flirtiness and then get yourself in a situation where you can put your face close to hers. If she doesn't back away, then go in for the kiss.

Hope this helps!
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Old 09-06-2011, 08:26 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Do you date Black guys?
I don't know - never been around them.
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Old 09-06-2011, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yes, its some sort of a Pick up artist book. Lot of people have been successful in it and even women too. Well, you still have to put yourself out there after you read the book.

I am not Black but how do I overcome Racism? There are women who are Racist.
Oh my Gawd........something wrong with you!
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Old 09-06-2011, 08:37 PM
 
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Oh my Gawd........something wrong with you!
Just speaking from experience.
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Old 09-06-2011, 08:38 PM
 
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Oh, darn it.
You act like that's a bad thing!

I try anyways.

Chemistry is the best thing ever.
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Old 09-06-2011, 08:39 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Just speaking from experience.
Experience of what?
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