Ladies:When should the guy "make a move"? (girls, kiss)
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100% African-American? How come people think that all Black guys are players?
Dunno that everyone thinks that. I'm probably the last person anyone would peg as a player. And I'm both African American AND Latino - which is even worse in terms of that stereotype.
I once picked up a novel about Blacks' relationships without noticing. All the dudes were licking their lips a whole lot! Frankly, to me this is mighty weird!
So it's been a while since I was in a situation where I "made a move". I only make a move with a gal that I really like.
Three things:
1) You must have a god job and assets over 1 million. (more if he's over 35)
2) You must have completed his plastic surgery so that he is not going to be an embarrassment.
3) You must have graduated from his psychiatrists class on how to be confident with women. Women like men who have the confidence to treat them with no respect and disdain. That way they know that the aren't getting that pathetic type - a nice guy - and instead are getting someone who meets their need for hypergamy.
Don't make a move a minute earlier than you're ready!
I was wondering about this because I am a very active dater, and most of the time I like the gal but not enough to want to pursue anything long term.
So it's been a while since I was in a situation where I "made a move". I only make a move with a gal that I really like.
I thought back on a few gals that I've dated when I was younger and new to the game, I missed signals all day long.
What do I mean by "make a move", when should a guy go for the first kiss?
What signals do you give? OR do you give any?
I think a kiss on the first date is moving too slow.
As for when you should make your move, the answer is first chance you get! If you don't do it, someone else will. Then he will be SCORING with the object of your affection while you're sitting at home patting yourself on the back for being a gentleman and waiting because you really like this girl.
[quote=Pimpy;20795630]I think a kiss on the first date is moving too slow.
As for when you should make your move, the answer is first chance you get! If you don't do it, someone else will. Then he will be SCORING with the object of your affection while you're sitting at home patting yourself on the back for being a gentleman and waiting because you really like this girl.
Remember the old saying, "He who hesitates..."[/quote]
Is smart because he doesn't impregnate?
I don't know..I'm usually the aggressive one and that way there's no confusion or hesitation
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