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Old 09-06-2011, 09:07 PM
 
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Experience of what?
Racism. There are women who will date based on Race.

Most just stick to their own kind.
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Old 09-06-2011, 10:01 PM
 
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100% African-American? How come people think that all Black guys are players?

Dunno that everyone thinks that. I'm probably the last person anyone would peg as a player. And I'm both African American AND Latino - which is even worse in terms of that stereotype.
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Old 09-06-2011, 10:02 PM
 
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I once picked up a novel about Blacks' relationships without noticing. All the dudes were licking their lips a whole lot! Frankly, to me this is mighty weird!
Yeah, we do that.
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Old 09-06-2011, 11:37 PM
 
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Default Ladies:When should the guy "make a move"?

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So it's been a while since I was in a situation where I "made a move". I only make a move with a gal that I really like.
Three things:

1) You must have a god job and assets over 1 million. (more if he's over 35)

2) You must have completed his plastic surgery so that he is not going to be an embarrassment.

3) You must have graduated from his psychiatrists class on how to be confident with women. Women like men who have the confidence to treat them with no respect and disdain. That way they know that the aren't getting that pathetic type - a nice guy - and instead are getting someone who meets their need for hypergamy.

Don't make a move a minute earlier than you're ready!
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Old 09-07-2011, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Racism. There are women who will date based on Race.

Most just stick to their own kind.
Nope not me. Too open minded. My son's father is Korean. And had a crush on a black guy at work that was a Physical Therapist.
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Old 09-08-2011, 01:35 AM
 
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Nope not me. Too open minded. My son's father is Korean. And had a crush on a black guy at work that was a Physical Therapist.
Others are not. The ones that don't like change don't like to study other religion and cultures.
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Old 09-08-2011, 11:27 AM
 
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Ronnie back again!


I was wondering about this because I am a very active dater, and most of the time I like the gal but not enough to want to pursue anything long term.

So it's been a while since I was in a situation where I "made a move". I only make a move with a gal that I really like.

I thought back on a few gals that I've dated when I was younger and new to the game, I missed signals all day long.


What do I mean by "make a move", when should a guy go for the first kiss?


What signals do you give? OR do you give any?
So how did the date go?
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Old 09-08-2011, 11:54 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Ronnie back again!


I was wondering about this because I am a very active dater, and most of the time I like the gal but not enough to want to pursue anything long term.

So it's been a while since I was in a situation where I "made a move". I only make a move with a gal that I really like.

I thought back on a few gals that I've dated when I was younger and new to the game, I missed signals all day long.


What do I mean by "make a move", when should a guy go for the first kiss?


What signals do you give? OR do you give any?
I think a kiss on the first date is moving too slow.

As for when you should make your move, the answer is first chance you get! If you don't do it, someone else will. Then he will be SCORING with the object of your affection while you're sitting at home patting yourself on the back for being a gentleman and waiting because you really like this girl.

Remember the old saying, "He who hesitates..."
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Old 09-25-2011, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Pa
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[quote=Pimpy;20795630]I think a kiss on the first date is moving too slow.

As for when you should make your move, the answer is first chance you get! If you don't do it, someone else will. Then he will be SCORING with the object of your affection while you're sitting at home patting yourself on the back for being a gentleman and waiting because you really like this girl.

Remember the old saying, "He who hesitates..."[/quote]
Is smart because he doesn't impregnate?
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Old 09-25-2011, 01:08 PM
 
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I don't know..I'm usually the aggressive one and that way there's no confusion or hesitation
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