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Old 09-06-2011, 01:12 AM
 
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Just wondering cause it seems like the barter system is always on at the clubs lol. Why do men think you owe them a dance for buying you a drink? HAHA! the biggest joke ever! Guys how you feel about that and girls how do you feel about that?hmmmm
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Old 09-06-2011, 01:15 AM
 
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Just wondering cause it seems like the barter system is always on at the clubs lol. Why do men think you owe them a dance for buying you a drink? HAHA! the biggest joke ever! Guys how you feel about that and girls how do you feel about that?hmmmm
Because he paid for it and the drink was overpriced. I have not been to a club like since 2003.
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Old 09-06-2011, 01:16 AM
 
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Just wondering cause it seems like the barter system is always on at the clubs lol. Why do men think you owe them a dance for buying you a drink? HAHA! the biggest joke ever! Guys how you feel about that and girls how do you feel about that?hmmmm
I dunno, if I liked a guy enough to accept a drink, it only seems like politeness to dance with him. I would feel I owed it to him...
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Old 09-06-2011, 01:18 AM
 
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Because he paid for it and the drink was overpriced. I have not been to a club like since 2003.
lol wow 2003! I went on a hiatus but I'm back on the scene and it's very interesting...
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Old 09-06-2011, 01:21 AM
 
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lol wow 2003! I went on a hiatus but I'm back on the scene and it's very interesting...
You can't do a conversation in a club because the music is very loud. There are fights there plus it gets too crowded. I don't drink and smoke also so I don't want to be around people who don't care about their health.

If someone really like to dance then there are classes you can join.
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Old 09-06-2011, 01:22 AM
 
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I dunno, if I liked a guy enough to accept a drink, it only seems like politeness to dance with him. I would feel I owed it to him...

Well you're a nice girl lol if he's ok I'll take the drink but I don't always want to dance with him. When I decline THEN the annoyance begins haa....just like men sleep with girls=no strings attached..women take drinks from men=no strings attached!
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Old 09-06-2011, 01:24 AM
 
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Well you're a nice girl lol if he's ok I'll take the drink but I don't always want to dance with him. When I decline THEN the annoyance begins haa....just like men sleep with girls=no strings attached..women take drinks from men=no strings attached!
I am guessing you are in your 20's right?
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Old 09-06-2011, 01:26 AM
 
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In a dance class session, I will never get denied. Everyone has a partner and you know to know them. No one is drunk also.
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Old 09-06-2011, 01:28 AM
 
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Yes I am in my late 20s and holding on by a string to what's left of it!haha I don't EVEN want to see my dirty thirty anytime soon.
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Old 09-06-2011, 01:33 AM
 
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That's why I never accept drinks (even water) from guys at clubs so I don't have to deal with the hassle. I don't drink at dance clubs anyways, it impedes my ability to dance.
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