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Old 09-15-2011, 11:41 PM
 
Location: Middle of the ocean
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Thanks, guys.

I will def meet once, since I agreed to it. Not one to bail.

I also told her that I don't want anything long term, and she agreed.

2 red flags have arisen, however:

-She said just just got over a messy breakup 2 months ago

-She said I can come over to her house and cuddle any time I want



I don't want to be a rebound, thats not good for her OR me.

Thoughts?
Considering you don't want anything long term, she sounds perfect. What's your problem specifically?
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Old 09-16-2011, 11:36 AM
 
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tmi

TMI?

Lets see what other threads are on here:

"Would you date a virgin"

"Intimacy issues"

"Stop staring at my boobs"

"When it comes to sex"


Sounds like you're just picking me out of a crowd.
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Old 09-16-2011, 11:37 AM
 
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Considering you don't want anything long term, she sounds perfect. What's your problem specifically?

She "likes" me and I don't feel that way yet. Neither of us want a relationship, but she wants me to feel that way about her, nevertheless.
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Old 09-16-2011, 05:30 PM
 
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I also told her that I don't want anything long term, and she agreed.

2 red flags have arisen, however:
-She said just just got over a messy breakup 2 months ago
-She said I can come over to her house and cuddle any time I want

I don't want to be a rebound, thats not good for her OR me.
Well, it sounds like you are a rebound. Why does that matter, though? You don't want anything serious, clearly. If you wanted something serious, that would be a red flag. But if you are just going to use each other, it's irrelevant.
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Old 09-17-2011, 11:55 AM
 
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Seeing her again tonight!
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Old 09-17-2011, 01:23 PM
 
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Seeing her again tonight!
remember to bring a few condoms
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Old 09-17-2011, 02:12 PM
 
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remember to bring a few condoms
We talked about having sex, and neither of us are ready yet.
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Old 09-17-2011, 02:18 PM
 
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We talked about having sex, and neither of us are ready yet.
Who cares. Bring the condoms anyway.

I had so many friends back in college who sheepishly confessed "accidentally" sleeping with someone when they had no prior intention to. Better to be safe and prepared and not need the condoms than to make a bad decision about just pulling out and hoping for the best when you're horny and not thinking with the big head, then have a surprise baby on the way.

Use your head.
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Old 09-17-2011, 02:37 PM
 
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^^^yep, it's not like you planed the make out. stuff happens.
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Old 09-17-2011, 02:50 PM
 
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^^^yep, it's not like you planed the make out. stuff happens.
I planned the makeout stuff in my head.
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