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Old 09-11-2011, 10:44 AM
 
Location: Upper East Side, NYC
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This is so cute. I hope it works out between you two.
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Old 09-11-2011, 03:34 PM
 
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i'm a total slackjaw from the sticks and EVEN I KNOW Pakistan is not in the middle east.

C'mon, people, learn some geography. geez....

Regarding the OP, good luck.
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Old 09-11-2011, 03:40 PM
 
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Default uh-oh?

we arranged to meet tonight around 6-ish. he called and left a message around 5 saying he cant make it because a friend who he is in bad terms with had become available only to meet him tonight for dinner. he said he'd be happy to reschedule- either later tonight for coffee or a movie or tomorrow night or some other night aside from thurs. i am kinda bummed truth be told but texted him saying it was no prob. and to let me know when he is free next. i said i could meet him later tonight but then again it is sunday night so we cant stay up too late. he texted back thanking me for my patience and that he'll text me around 7 to see how i felt about hanging out. i said no worries even tho i am a tad bit disappointed since i was excited to see him but this sounded important and that id be happy to reschedule...

doesn't look like he is making it up...should i meet him later tonight? or wait till later in the week? i was really looking forward to seeing him.
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Old 09-11-2011, 03:42 PM
 
Location: Nevernever land
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OMG, he seems like the kind of guy that has the potential to be a serial killer. Bad vibes all around. Wouldn't pay for Italian. Wouldn't go inside? Was important to get to work on time. Kissed you a bunch of times without slipping you the ole' tongue. Run and run fast, this guy sounds like a big time loser..


Just kidding. Sounds like a nice guy and that you guys could hit it off. However, I am always wary at the start of something good to talk about it. Can lead to jinxing it. Maybe it's me, but I am superstitious..

Good luck though, you both sound like catches..The fact that you understood that he didn't have the money, was very kind and courteous of you. Some women are very materialistic and apparently you aren't..
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Old 09-11-2011, 03:44 PM
 
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we arranged to meet tonight around 6-ish. he called and left a message around 5 saying he cant make it because a friend who he is in bad terms with had become available only to meet him tonight for dinner. he said he'd be happy to reschedule- either later tonight for coffee or a movie or tomorrow night or some other night aside from thurs. i am kinda bummed truth be told but texted him saying it was no prob. and to let me know when he is free next. i said i could meet him later tonight but then again it is sunday night so we cant stay up too late. he texted back thanking me for my patience and that he'll text me around 7 to see how i felt about hanging out. i said no worries even tho i am a tad bit disappointed since i was excited to see him but this sounded important and that id be happy to reschedule...

doesn't look like he is making it up...should i meet him later tonight? or wait till later in the week? i was really looking forward to seeing him.
Are you guys going out now or still dating? I wouldn't worry about it, things come up all the time and plans falter. Meet him later if you can, if not, then later this week.
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Old 09-11-2011, 03:48 PM
 
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Are you guys going out now or still dating? I wouldn't worry about it, things come up all the time and plans falter. Meet him later if you can, if not, then later this week.
this would've been date 3
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Old 09-11-2011, 04:44 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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This is a good start but until things are official he maybe dating other women.
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Old 09-11-2011, 04:46 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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we arranged to meet tonight around 6-ish. he called and left a message around 5 saying he cant make it because a friend who he is in bad terms with had become available only to meet him tonight for dinner. he said he'd be happy to reschedule- either later tonight for coffee or a movie or tomorrow night or some other night aside from thurs. i am kinda bummed truth be told but texted him saying it was no prob. and to let me know when he is free next. i said i could meet him later tonight but then again it is sunday night so we cant stay up too late. he texted back thanking me for my patience and that he'll text me around 7 to see how i felt about hanging out. i said no worries even tho i am a tad bit disappointed since i was excited to see him but this sounded important and that id be happy to reschedule...

doesn't look like he is making it up...should i meet him later tonight? or wait till later in the week? i was really looking forward to seeing him.
I'd give him the benefit of the doubt at least once. Meet him later this evening if it's convenient for you (and he really calls) since you were already planning on seeing him. Just take things easy and don't come off as too anxious for things to happen between you - take your time and let a friendship grow
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Old 09-11-2011, 04:48 PM
 
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well, im a muslim and this is my first time dating...so he is respectful of that and trying to make me comfy.
Is he a muslim too.
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Old 09-11-2011, 05:16 PM
 
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mariagostrey...if you are "really looking forward to seeing him"...then why wouldn't you?? Have fun...don't read too much into his actions....this is all very new....goodluck, I hope he treats you very well!
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