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Old 09-28-2011, 05:20 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn,NY
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I ran into her coming off the subway! It was creepy! I played it cool and said good day Im on my way to somewhere. I looked back and she was just standing there....staring. Yikes. So far no phone calls or texts and it's been a week. Wish me luck folks.
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Old 09-28-2011, 05:23 PM
 
Location: In the clouds
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I ran into her coming off the subway! It was creepy! I played it cool and said good day Im on my way to somewhere. I looked back and she was just standing there....staring. Yikes. So far no phone calls or texts and it's been a week. Wish me luck folks.
*Sigh* staring doesn't mean anything....why are guys so paranoid?
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Old 09-28-2011, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn,NY
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Based on my past experience with her, And that weird stare Im concerned about the 3 AM phone calls starting up again. So far so good but you never know.
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Old 09-28-2011, 05:42 PM
 
Location: Hunkering down atop Shasta
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Just curious to know if anyone has had the "creep" experience. The stalking/constant driving past your house kind of creepiness. The never ending calls, etc. I've experienced it quite a few times. And I know that women as well as men are capable of that kind of weirdness, so how did you deal w/ it?
In addition to single creeps, there are group creeps. This is often called Organized Stalking, Mobbing, or Gangstalking. The perps get together on cellphone conference calls, texting, or CB radios, and harass a victim by letting him know constantly that he is under surveillance.

In my case, it was by swarming around me with red vehicles whenever I went outside, or whenever I appeared at my home window. Also doing many u-turns in front of me, or headlighting me as I went on walks. Or by mocking some action I had done maybe 20-30 minutes ago.

That's happened to me for a long time now. What I overheard when they were recruiting one of my neighbors: "Hey, you want to join us? We're trying to drive him into suicide! (laughs) He molest children and rapes little babies!" They even followed me into the local hospital once when I was at death's door, and paraded up and down the hall outside my door, wearing red shirts and black pants. They had to be kicked out by the charge nurse, who threatened to call the police.

I guess they're something like Neighborhood Watch types who think they are above the law, who are vigilantes. There's a reason why we don't do vigilantism based on rumor in the USA, it's an outstandingly bad way to determine guilt ("Sue Ellen said that black feller raped her, that's how she got pregnant - let's get him!!!).

I think in my case there's something more to it, since it keeps on happening for so long - perhaps there's a con artist or other sociopath keeping the ball rolling for profit or for fun. I don't know, since they are cowards and afraid to confront me directly.
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Old 09-28-2011, 05:45 PM
 
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Based on my past experience with her, And that weird stare Im concerned about the 3 AM phone calls starting up again. So far so good but you never know.
I've been through what you're going through & I would be totally creeped out. Because I'd be wondering if it was a coincidence that she was standing there. Also with these situations you know you're on her mind now that she saw you again. Don't panic, but be careful
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Old 09-28-2011, 06:17 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn,NY
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I've been through what you're going through & I would be totally creeped out. Because I'd be wondering if it was a coincidence that she was standing there. Also with these situations you know you're on her mind now that she saw you again. Don't panic, but be careful
Thanks 007. I expect she probably would have started it up again by now. Maybe she found some other guy.

35 years on this earth and still, I find myself shocked at peoples behavior sometimes. There are some WEIRD ones out there, that's for sure.
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Old 09-28-2011, 06:53 PM
 
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Thanks 007. I expect she probably would have started it up again by now. Maybe she found some other guy.

35 years on this earth and still, I find myself shocked at peoples behavior sometimes. There are some WEIRD ones out there, that's for sure.
Well, good luck, I know there's too many weirdo's out there. LOL the only good thing I'm learning thing is that they're not only in my area...
Whats so weird is earlier I had the Radiohead song on, & this post comes up
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Old 09-29-2011, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Heart of Dixie
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In addition to single creeps, there are group creeps. This is often called Organized Stalking, Mobbing, or Gangstalking. The perps get together on cellphone conference calls, texting, or CB radios, and harass a victim by letting him know constantly that he is under surveillance.

In my case, it was by swarming around me with red vehicles whenever I went outside, or whenever I appeared at my home window. Also doing many u-turns in front of me, or headlighting me as I went on walks. Or by mocking some action I had done maybe 20-30 minutes ago.

That's happened to me for a long time now. What I overheard when they were recruiting one of my neighbors: "Hey, you want to join us? We're trying to drive him into suicide! (laughs) He molest children and rapes little babies!" They even followed me into the local hospital once when I was at death's door, and paraded up and down the hall outside my door, wearing red shirts and black pants. They had to be kicked out by the charge nurse, who threatened to call the police.

I guess they're something like Neighborhood Watch types who think they are above the law, who are vigilantes. There's a reason why we don't do vigilantism based on rumor in the USA, it's an outstandingly bad way to determine guilt ("Sue Ellen said that black feller raped her, that's how she got pregnant - let's get him!!!).

I think in my case there's something more to it, since it keeps on happening for so long - perhaps there's a con artist or other sociopath keeping the ball rolling for profit or for fun. I don't know, since they are cowards and afraid to confront me directly.

This IS strange, for a group of people to be doing that, you must be accused of doing something really, really BAD!! I'd confront them and try to get things worked out and if you're guilty of something, you may need to turn yourself in, for protections and self-preservation.
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Old 09-29-2011, 11:40 AM
 
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People are only creeps if they're unattractive. I've never seen an attractive person of either gender called a creep even when their actions justified calling them that.
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Old 09-29-2011, 11:44 AM
 
Location: Colorado
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People are only creeps if they're unattractive. I've never seen an attractive person of either gender called a creep even when their actions justified calling them that.
You just painted a broad stroke. This is completely baseless.
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