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Read the game by neil strauss and you will realize you're a classic example of an AFC (average frustrated chump). That book might change your life. When's the last time you got laid?
Lol, what a coincidence. A friend of my mom suggested that book for me and I just bought it!
Texas user, I'm not one of those pathetic guys that think every girl who says hello to me is into me, those types drive me nuts. I know she had feelings for me because she expressed those feelings in obvious ways, and, we were together once sort of. It was a short lived casual thing but it happened none the less. { not sex, but we did kiss and do social things together. Never came to sex though. }
You say your not "one of those guys" yet you made a post about this incident on a message board. C'mon man you didnt even f her and your making her out to be something more. Yeah you knew her since you were a kid but you never took the reigns when it came to sexual tension. The best thing you can do right now is f some other girl your interested in.
Um, EVERYONE is afraid of rejection. But if you don't put yourself out there, you get to live with the regret that you didn't.
I am NOT afraid of rejection. I don't think anyone should be. Its part of life. Nobody is perfect. Sure, your first rejection may hurt the most but you will get used it afterall. Its just like any other profitable business out there.
Read the game by neil strauss and you will realize you're a classic example of an AFC (average frustrated chump). That book might change your life. When's the last time you got laid?
Lol. You read the DJ Bible? Are you a Don Juan (DJ)?
Guys it is your job to open your mouth and ask for what you want. If you think that the girl is going to ask you your out of your mind. What makes the story sadder is that the op and at least one other poster stated that the girl of their dreams was a best friend at one time or another. When you find a best friend that happens to be someone you would want to spend your entire life with why would you let her get away?
Maybe someone needs to write a book about that. The perfect partner is someone that you just can't imagine living without. Many people never find that in their life. You guys had it and let it get away.
Now here is what you do. Forget her, don't go to the wedding. She belongs to another. Find someone else that will make you happy. If that doesn't work go and make a complete fool of yourself and tell her that she is the girl for you.
It's a better example of "nothing venture, nothing gained." Nice doesn't really have much to do with it, but not pursuing something when you have the chance to do so, and then being upset when the moment passes you by might.
You will get over this. I say ...say nothing. Unfortunately you had plenty of time to express your feelings and chose not to. You never know when someone is going to enter someone life so sitting around thinking they will always be there is a tragedy. I know you feel bad but next time you find someone who makes you feel that way, tell them........pursue them......desire them.
All wounds heal over time.
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