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OP, You need to leave the relationship. He SHOULD dump you. You don't love him. You loved his money. AS someone else wrote, he would be better off with out you.
Why do people keep talking about her wanting his money??? He was making $60,000 and has FIVE kids!! Just what kind of money do you people think he has to throw around on his girlfriend??? HE HAS FIVE KIDS that he is supporting, plus his bills and debts, whatever. Hello? Call her whatever, but enough of the gold digging comments. That is just freaking laughable.
He was making $60,000 a year at a factory when we started dating 2 years ago. He has 5 kids by 4 women. He was never broke and always made time for me and our relationship has been good so far. The company he worked for closed 4 months ago. He wanted to get back to work right away and has been putting in several applications. He finally got a job as a cook at Ihop. He is making $9.00 an hour now. His savings in gone because he has been paying his bills and child support. He doesn't get paid for two weeks. The job does not pay enough for him to pay all his bills and I have helped out by giving him $400 over the past 2 months to help with his bills. He is depressed because he is not making enough money and I'm tired of helping him with money. I love him but this is a hard situation. Would you break up over money?
Yes.
[he needs to focus his energy on those who are important to him and honestly love him - don't waste his time]
Would I break up over money? In this situation, without hesitation, YES.
In this situation, it's nothing for you to be ashamed of, or be called a "gold-digger" for (LOL). This guy's situation is what it is. It's not an issue of him being underemployed in this economy. He had 5 kids he's taking care of. IMO, that's a HUGE thing to consider. He could find another 60K job next week, and STILL has to deal with these payments until the kids are 18.
Unless you want the responsibility of being the major breadwinner for the two of you in your relationship, I'd move on right now. There's nothing to be ashamed of at all. It is what it is, and you have the option not to *buy* into it.
5 kids, by 4 women ?? Are you making this story up ???
9.00 an hour, how the hell is he affording those kids, paying rent, and putting food in his body ?! He must be living on free iHop ... Additionally, from $60k a year, to less than $20k a year ... I bet he would have been making more on unemployment -
So what happens when you end up pregnet with child number six and seven? Even if he still had his old job, that's a lot of kids. I love transcends all boundaries but I just don't know about this one.
you must be confuse she never said that she did not care about herself. the fact of the matter is that shes giving him 400.00 off and on to help him and if she really care about her self. she would leave i take that she do not have a child by him yes run run like hell and do not look back.
I would break up with him because he has 5 kids by 4 women
Bingo.Shows irresponsibility,immaturity and a whole other host of undesirable traits when it comes to reproduction.
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HE HAS FIVE KIDS that he is supporting, plus his bills and debts, whatever. Hello? Call her whatever, but enough of the gold digging comments. That is just freaking laughable.
