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Old 09-16-2011, 11:18 PM
 
Location: Flushing, Queens, NYC, NY
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Does any man actually find this attractive? I think women think it's a "hot" thing to say during sex, but it just kind of skeeves me out. Why would you want to think of your parents when I'm having sex with you? That's just gross. Not hot. I'm not your dad, I'm having sex with you. And if you get those two things confused, there's a little more to worry about than how creeped out I feel.

Women, have you ever said this? Why?
Men, do you actually think this is hot?
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Old 09-16-2011, 11:21 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I think women think it's a "hot" thing to say during sex
That's news to me! I've been known to use God's name in vain, but I do it on other occasions as well.
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Old 09-16-2011, 11:32 PM
 
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I've never understood why anyone would consider that to be anything other than disturbing.
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Old 09-16-2011, 11:36 PM
 
Location: Flushing, Queens, NYC, NY
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Good to see that this is the general consensus! I went on two dates recently with a woman, and when she said this in bed it was a total dealbreaker. I felt kind of bad about breaking it off though, but that was just too creepy.
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Old 09-16-2011, 11:37 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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How is it any different than the '40's - '50's husbands' habit of calling their wives "Mother"? THAT skeeves me out far more than baby talk during sex ...
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Old 09-16-2011, 11:38 PM
 
Location: Flushing, Queens, NYC, NY
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Yeah that's a creepy bit of role confusion too.
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Old 09-16-2011, 11:39 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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Is "OOOH BABY" any different or any less creepy now that you mention it?
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Old 09-16-2011, 11:44 PM
 
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How is it any different than the '40's - '50's husbands' habit of calling their wives "Mother"? THAT skeeves me out far more than baby talk during sex ...
I was under the impression that was done only in the presence of the children...in which case, I see nothing wrong with it.
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Old 09-16-2011, 11:45 PM
 
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Is "OOOH BABY" any different or any less creepy now that you mention it?
Ummm...of course. I call my sweetie "baby". I call my son "baby". It's simply a term of endearment.
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Old 09-16-2011, 11:47 PM
 
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Wow, very odd...I can handle the bullwhip and chicken treatment, but start calling me in reference to my parents, its over asap, and I go back to the bathroom with a sears catalog..I have some scruples dammit...real twisted sickos in this world I tell ya
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