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Old 09-19-2011, 08:59 AM
 
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quite often, I usually resolve it with whacking off, alcohol, coffee, music or punching things
..not necessarily in that order.
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Old 09-19-2011, 11:05 AM
 
Location: California
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I think you need to just take matters into your own hands.

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Ever have a day where your libido was kicking in such a high gear that you just HAVE to have sex before the day is over, but you have no wife or girlfriend or anything guaranteed?

Just wondering where everyone else turns? "Meat market" type bars? Craigslist? Booty calls? Prostitutes?

When I still lived in my home state, it was strictly booty calls for days like that, as I had a large rolodex of them. I am in a new state now and my pipeline isn't nearly as full, so I sometimes have to pursue other avenues. I've done all the ones listed above except prostitutes.

Mainly looking for new and fresh ideas I haven't thought of yet. Let's hear what you got.
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Old 09-19-2011, 12:15 PM
 
Location: US
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Ever have a day where your libido was kicking in such a high gear that you just HAVE to have sex before the day is over, but you have no wife or girlfriend or anything guaranteed?

Just wondering where everyone else turns? "Meat market" type bars? Craigslist? Booty calls? Prostitutes?

When I still lived in my home state, it was strictly booty calls for days like that, as I had a large rolodex of them. I am in a new state now and my pipeline isn't nearly as full, so I sometimes have to pursue other avenues. I've done all the ones listed above except prostitutes.

Mainly looking for new and fresh ideas I haven't thought of yet. Let's hear what you got.
Um eww.

How about putting that energy into making yourself something people want and then starting with hello.

Seriously...if someone doesn't want to sleep with you there is probably a reason(s) that you can change.
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Old 09-19-2011, 12:43 PM
 
Location: In The Thin Air
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So Pimpy, did you succeed in your quest for SEX or did you just rub one out to calm the libido?
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Old 09-20-2011, 05:19 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Pimpy View Post
Ever have a day where your libido was kicking in such a high gear that you just HAVE to have sex before the day is over, but you have no wife or girlfriend or anything guaranteed?

Just wondering where everyone else turns? "Meat market" type bars? Craigslist? Booty calls? Prostitutes?

When I still lived in my home state, it was strictly booty calls for days like that, as I had a large rolodex of them. I am in a new state now and my pipeline isn't nearly as full, so I sometimes have to pursue other avenues. I've done all the ones listed above except prostitutes.

Mainly looking for new and fresh ideas I haven't thought of yet. Let's hear what you got.

PORN. For guys like me meat markets don't work, for ALL guys cl is just spammers these days. Booty calls? I thought you said you had nothing guaranteed, so how would there be a person providing sex for you under the scenario you described?

Besides, some of us never cross the line between dates we have sex with (or should I say try like hell and usually don't succeed) and women we know as friends. In my world there is no female friend I could casually ask a booty call from. And never has been, and likely never will be. They would be shocked to smithereens and likely never talk to me again. I don't know people who are that fluid in their sexuality that they can casually screw friends at the drop of a hat by receiving a late night phone call - but I do know several who would consider it rude and disrespectful to even consider making such a call.

As far as prostitutes go, no thanks. I dont know about you but my ego says that if she's only sleeping with me due to $$$ then I'm a loser. I need to know that the force of my personality/other qualities are so strong that she just HAS to have sex with me.

So since nothing else applied, I say PORN. No egos get crushed (me failing to score), no women get offended (none were hit on). Sad but it's life in the 21st Century I'm afraid. (and btw I do have a huge libido, it's really more of a curse than anything.)

In Europe these rules are different, as they are in much of the world. People go out at night, they hook up (half the time they're married), they mostly never see the other person again.
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Old 09-20-2011, 05:59 AM
 
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1-800-rent-a-goat
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Old 09-20-2011, 06:03 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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1-800-rent-a-goat
They're really good! Especially on Fridays - they have a Buy-One / Get-One deal going on! And make sure to use my name as a referral - I get bonus miles ...
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Old 09-20-2011, 09:24 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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Lmao ^^^^
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Old 09-20-2011, 09:40 AM
 
Location: Woodbridge, Virgina
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This post is one of the craziest I have seen and I have been a part of this site for a year. To the poster if you feel that you NEED sex and this tends to happen on a regular basis, why not explore this NEED a little more. Sex is a wonderful thing and shouldn’t be such taboo and sketchy topic. I see some people referring you to clubs in not so good areas, craigslist which has had KILLERS on their website, and booty calls hmmm can’t argue with that! Now the BEST suggestion I can give is sex clubs or sex parties. Look into these they offer people who are or have a strong sexual urge or urges an outlet. You can meet up once a month and feed that NEED, with others just as NEEDY as you, oh and don’t worry about it being only for older people I may join one and I’m 19, but I’m a male! So hopefully you feeled that need, and look into this alternative if you like?!
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Old 09-21-2011, 08:44 AM
 
Location: Kansas City Metro
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Adultfriendfinder dot com
datehookup dot com

my ex used these a lot and yes he "scored" and yes we are no longer together. YMMV
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