Is something wrong with me? I'm 23 and prefer to be with an older woman. HELP ME (boyfriends, married)
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At 25, I would never consider dating someone who is 23. No matter how mature they "think" they are. A lot of life happens in your early 20's. I would prefer to date someone who is over that whole part of their life. That's just my opinion tho.
A smile and deep longing comes to mind when reminising about the trysts and committed relationships I've shared with older women. There was a distinguished depth and giving during each and every intimate moment. In addition, there was a sort of "unspoken" appreciation which they all displayed in subtle and sometimes not so subtle ways. Dare I add that each older woman I've dated and romanced displayed a very caring nature; something I've rarely experienced with younger women. The smallest of things which I either gave or did for them was deeply appreciated.
I once sustained an enduring affair with an older woman. Her husband treated her with very little regard and little to no attention. She was there to serve his needs as he (and his parents) required. Despite being an extremely beautiful woman with very desirable attributes (silky jet black hair, exotic eyes, full lips, nice breasts, Jlo butt, lovely thighs and legs), she was made to feel and act like an ugly maid of servitude.
It's amazing what a few honest and simple words of admiration can accomplish in the heart of a downtrodden soul. "You look so beautiful in that dress." "Your new hairstyle really compliments your pretty smile." A woman who once felt ugly and useless was made to smile and act coy. It was so pleasing to see her upgrade her attire from loose sweats to tight jeans and makeup, or a nice dress.
Some will chastise me for seducing a married woman. Yet, should one feel guilt for being kind and for sharing a beautiful romance with a woman whom was made to feel beautiful after years of feeling ugly? This was one of the most memorable and deeply moving moments of my life thanks to. . .an older woman.
I don't think you have a "problem" You have your preference & there's nothing wrong with it. So stop thinking you need help-its more common than you realize. Just go for it
Nothing wrong with the age range you've posted. Now if you would have said you have a thing for women 80 - 85 at your age there'd be something to talk about.
I would think there was something wrong with you if you were a 23 year old male and you didn't want to hop on some older women. I was all over them at your age and still am at 29.
Some older chicks are into younger dudes and some aren't. It's a numbers game, which means if you just go out and approach them en masse, you will succeed with many.
I would think there was something wrong with you if you were a 23 year old male and you didn't want to hop on some older women. I was all over them at your age and still am at 29.
I personally think OP's just *****ing around, because I just can't imagine a 23 year old guy feeling creeped out for simply being attracted to older women, especially in this day and age.
Your problem may not be that you like women who are a little older, but that you feel so GUILTY about it! What's up with that?
Would you look down on a 30 year old man dating a 23 year old woman?
You need to get your gender double standards under control for a start. It's a wee bit insulting to women.
Precisely, and it goes both ways. It's ingrained in most men & women that the more natural dating/relationship norm is between an older man and a younger woman. My GF (and hopefully permanent life partner) is 4 years older than me. It took her at least 8 months to accept the fact that her age was not a factor I was concerned about. Finally, she has come to her senses about this, and now realizes that I love her and am committed to her for the person she is. Her age does not factor into our relationship.
I'm 23 and I prefer to have a serious relationship with an older woman; preferably 26-36.
I think most women my age are way too immature and don't have that experience that I have seen in older women.
I'm extremely career orientated but I still like to have fun on the side. I was in a very rough situation but I managed too turn my life around. I have a solid job, I'm in the beginning of my career and also going to college. I have my own car, my own place and I handle all my business like I'm supposed to.
I think thats something to be proud of considering some people who are twice my age are in a worse situation thanks to our current economic level.
I know this sounds crazy but I honestly want one woman I can invest my time energy and do things with but I also want something that will last and someone who I can build up financially, emotionally, mentally and they do the same for me. I want a partner but most girls my age are just not into that.
I'm also 6'2", take very good care of my body, a decent face and everyone thinks I'm hilarious but I just don't seem to be having luck of getting approached.
I also recently scared off a lady I was talking to because she just wanted a good time when I wanted commitment
But I really don't think that is some strange age leap either. I am older than the guy I am with. We were watching the sopranos the other day and one mobster mentioned his hot girlfriend of 26 and the boyfriend randomly said something to the same of what you just did. He is about 5 years older than you but lost his interest in younger women based on behaviors as well.
I'm 27 and I normally date girls 21-25. You take the older ones and I'll enjoy the younger ones
deal.
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