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Originally Posted by Caligula1
Hey...If a Man is not really into sex but into a life long real realtionship.
Based on love, cuddling and a respect for the other..
Does a couple need sex.. Even if its a certin act with toys...
A Woman with a vibe Cuuke ..A man with a funky plastic Vagina?
What happins if a Gay guy meets a Les woman and they seem sooooo alike...???
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Ok..Hell I dont even understand this post as I wrote it originall..
First let me clarify, I'm not gay.. I am a guy thats not very sexual..
Sure sex is great with the right person but for me "great sex" has always been about first developing a relationship built on love, trust, respect..
I have been this way since I was of sexual awareness..
Just always thought I was weird or built wrong because all my friends were out there banging everthing with legs without reguard to the next moring..
I did however date a Lesbian woman with a kid Many Moons ago..
I had no idea at the time when we got involved (she had a freekin kid and an ex)..
After I found out she really wasnt into guys, I found she was into some pretty freeky stuff (toys)...
BTW to the guy that mentioned a fleshlight...
You must know more then me..I had to look it up..
BUT..if things would have went a little differently, simple minor changes on both our parts I think we would have been together still..
So if I wouldnt have mentioned the Toy's thing and got a bunch of perverted minds rolling...
Is it possible or even fathomable to some here...Not everyone..Some..
To have a Love life, NOT sex life, a true relationship built on everything else except the sexual aspect..
And hey...I should mention if she wanted to get freeky with a girlfriend..I really didnt care, she didnt expect me to watch her get freeky with the friend
(though lots of guys would love it) and she sure didnt expect me to get freeky with my guy friends..