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Old 02-16-2012, 02:53 PM
 
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you sound clingy and desperate...guaranteed to make a woman run for the hills. if she doesn't respond to your text the first time or makes an excuse, move right along and dont keep pestering her
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:33 PM
 
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Of course Black men don't get as many Hispanic women in Kennesaw, GA. Move to South Florida, Houston, or Southern California and you'll have more than enough to choose from who love Black men. Night and day. I didn't believe it until I moved and experienced it myself.

Plus, many Hispanic women are Catholic. Isn't that what you're looking for?



Right now your studies are most important anyway. It's probably for the best that you are too busy to focus on women. I wish you luck!
Kennesaw's Hispanic population has been on the rise for many years, and I see many of them in my church. At this point, I'm just waiting until I leave Kennesaw.

I've been to Texas. I used to live there(Ft. Worth) before moving to Seattle. I've also thought about giving New York, Chicago, and Denver a try. And who is to say that only Hispanic women are Catholic. There are many African women and Asian women who are Catholic(mainly Vietnamese and Filipino).

And you have a point. My studies are crucial right now. Part of why my focus has been drifting slowly away from women. I don't have as much time or energy to be social. I still have time and energy, just not as much of it anymore. Part of the reason I gave up on a few women.
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:39 PM
 
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you sound clingy and desperate...guaranteed to make a woman run for the hills. if she doesn't respond to your text the first time or makes an excuse, move right along and dont keep pestering her
I've been called clingy before. That didn't end too well the last time that happened. Part of why, for a every long time, I stopped trying to seek any romance. I turned into a very depressed man. I lost alot of confidence that I had. By the time I decided that I need to take some action for my own life, instead of waiting on a woman to come to me, I realized I wasted alot of time in my life. Part of my I kept calling. I was determined. I figured, if someone sees I'm determined, it might be kind of nice.

To be honest, I don't know everything about women. I only know what I would do in my situations. Every woman is different. For this reason, I have to get to know a woman personally.
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:43 PM
 
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I didn't read through the entire thread OP, but one thing that springs to mind, you may not necessarily be doing anything "wrong". Do you only go after super-hot chicks? They sometimes flake out more
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Old 02-16-2012, 03:44 PM
 
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Kennesaw's Hispanic population has been on the rise for many years, and I see many of them in my church. At this point, I'm just waiting until I leave Kennesaw.

I've been to Texas. I used to live there(Ft. Worth) before moving to Seattle. I've also thought about giving New York, Chicago, and Denver a try. And who is to say that only Hispanic women are Catholic. There are many African women and Asian women who are Catholic(mainly Vietnamese and Filipino).

And you have a point. My studies are crucial right now. Part of why my focus has been drifting slowly away from women. I don't have as much time or energy to be social. I still have time and energy, just not as much of it anymore. Part of the reason I gave up on a few women.
ya, a lot of Filipinas are Catholic, and hot too!
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Old 02-16-2012, 04:01 PM
 
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And who is to say that only Hispanic women are Catholic. There are many African women and Asian women who are Catholic(mainly Vietnamese and Filipino).
I only referred to the Catholicism of Hispanic women because we were specifically discussing them and there are larger numbers of them to choose from. You need a big pool if you're not having luck in the dating world. But, by all means, go for Catholic women of all races!
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Old 02-16-2012, 04:44 PM
 
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christiansmingle.com is a dating site you know =)
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Old 02-16-2012, 07:22 PM
 
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I didn't read through the entire thread OP, but one thing that springs to mind, you may not necessarily be doing anything "wrong". Do you only go after super-hot chicks? They sometimes flake out more
I didn't go after the "super hot" women. Mostly, the women have varied. A few of the women have been closer to my height(5'5") and a bit curvy. None of them are what I call "super hot". However, none of them would be considered "ugly" either. Decent-looking women, but not "super hot". A few were taller than me.
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Old 02-16-2012, 07:24 PM
 
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I only referred to the Catholicism of Hispanic women because we were specifically discussing them and there are larger numbers of them to choose from. You need a big pool if you're not having luck in the dating world. But, by all means, go for Catholic women of all races!
I'm open to dating women of all races and ethnicities. As long as they share my faith, I'm open. I look at it this way. If I open up to all ethnicities and races, that will increase my chances.
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Old 02-17-2012, 05:51 AM
 
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You are in college, bro. Forget about love and shoot for sex, at least for the next few years.

As for why you keep getting flaked out on, part of the problem is you are trying to set everything up via text message. Texting is typically done mindlessly with people barely even processing in their minds what is being sent and received.

If you want to make firm plans with a chick and be reasonably assured that she will keep them, pick up the phone and call.

As I've said before, text messaging is great for established booty calls, not so great when you're still trying to lay the groundwork.
Not true. Some college-age folks are into love, not sex.

Again, not true. Some people only text and don't like phone calls. Texting also records the conversation whereas with phone calls you have to rely on memory.
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