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Good Morning All, Really trying to struggle with this scenario and cant understand it for the life of me....I met this new guy.....really nice guy.... We have been out a couple of times to bars and to dinner... I have not been to his place and he has not been to my place yet. (Just didnt feel comfortable, we always met out....I finally feel comfortable enough to invite him over. Well guess what, he said that he couldnt come over...OK..I understand......maybe he had other plans....But since the initial invite...I've invited him over several other times and theres always an excuse of why he cant come over. All the signs are there...He acts like he likes me, but then these couple of scenarios dont make sense.
Dont' really know what to do...Can someone elaborate on my dilemma?
Personally, I'd invite him one more time to give him a chance to say yes. If he says no for whatever reason, then say "hey, you pick the date, I just want to have you over, so get your calendar out while we are talking about it now".
THEN if he hems and haws or can't commit to doing that, you need to be brave enough to just say to him "what gives?" Don't let him off the hook or end the conversation until you know the answer to that question.
The thing is, you should ALWAYS follow your gut instincts.
And right now your instincts are telling you something isn't quite right. He may be totally innocent, but he also might be hiding something you'd be better off knowing sooner rather than later.
Good Morning All, Really trying to struggle with this scenario and cant understand it for the life of me....I met this new guy.....really nice guy.... We have been out a couple of times to bars and to dinner... I have not been to his place and he has not been to my place yet. (Just didnt feel comfortable, we always met out....I finally feel comfortable enough to invite him over. Well guess what, he said that he couldnt come over...OK..I understand......maybe he had other plans....But since the initial invite...I've invited him over several other times and theres always an excuse of why he cant come over. All the signs are there...He acts like he likes me, but then these couple of scenarios dont make sense.
Dont' really know what to do...Can someone elaborate on my dilemma?
Not all people like to be sexually involved with people they don't know very well.
Good Morning All, Really trying to struggle with this scenario and cant understand it for the life of me....I met this new guy.....really nice guy.... We have been out a couple of times to bars and to dinner... I have not been to his place and he has not been to my place yet. (Just didnt feel comfortable, we always met out....I finally feel comfortable enough to invite him over. Well guess what, he said that he couldnt come over...OK..I understand......maybe he had other plans....But since the initial invite...I've invited him over several other times and theres always an excuse of why he cant come over. All the signs are there...He acts like he likes me, but then these couple of scenarios dont make sense.
Dont' really know what to do...Can someone elaborate on my dilemma?
He is already in another relationship. Or he's not as 'in' to you as you think.
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PERFORMANCE ANXIETY 3:1 (Bet $1 to win $3)
WIFE/GIRLFRIEND 3:1
LIVES WITH PARENTS 4:1
HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU 5:1
GAY 12:1
Get your bets in TODAY before 5pm. Nuttin' but MONEY... if you're gonna sin... WIN! OP, ask your guy point blank what the deal is and post the answer here, but NOT before 5pm. If it don't make dollars, it don't make sense!
Does a dinky winky fall under "Performance Anxiety"?
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