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Old 10-04-2011, 06:10 AM
 
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Good Morning All, Really trying to struggle with this scenario and cant understand it for the life of me....I met this new guy.....really nice guy.... We have been out a couple of times to bars and to dinner... I have not been to his place and he has not been to my place yet. (Just didnt feel comfortable, we always met out....I finally feel comfortable enough to invite him over. Well guess what, he said that he couldnt come over...OK..I understand......maybe he had other plans....But since the initial invite...I've invited him over several other times and theres always an excuse of why he cant come over. All the signs are there...He acts like he likes me, but then these couple of scenarios dont make sense.
Dont' really know what to do...Can someone elaborate on my dilemma?
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Old 10-04-2011, 06:15 AM
 
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Maybe he is afraid of sex? Have you had any intimate physical contact with him? Kissing and stuff?
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Old 10-04-2011, 06:32 AM
 
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Can't really speculate why he isn't coming by - he just isn't. Consider moving on. You put the invite out there more than once. If he is really interested he would make it happen.
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Old 10-04-2011, 06:38 AM
 
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Maybe he is afraid of sex? Have you had any intimate physical contact with him? Kissing and stuff?
Yes....the physical contact is there....I feel really comfortable with him now, thus the invites over to my place.
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Old 10-04-2011, 08:40 AM
 
Location: Florida
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It's Diamond Pimpy back again at the odds table, coming at you from the heart of Las City-Data. Here are the odds on today's dilemma.

PERFORMANCE ANXIETY 3:1 (Bet $1 to win $3)
WIFE/GIRLFRIEND 3:1
LIVES WITH PARENTS 4:1
HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU 5:1
GAY 12:1

Get your bets in TODAY before 5pm. Nuttin' but MONEY... if you're gonna sin... WIN! OP, ask your guy point blank what the deal is and post the answer here, but NOT before 5pm. If it don't make dollars, it don't make sense!
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Old 10-04-2011, 08:55 AM
 
Location: Frisco, TX
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It's Diamond Pimpy back again at the odds table, coming at you from the heart of Las City-Data. Here are the odds on today's dilemma.

PERFORMANCE ANXIETY 3:1 (Bet $1 to win $3)
WIFE/GIRLFRIEND 3:1
LIVES WITH PARENTS 4:1
HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU 5:1
GAY 12:1

Get your bets in TODAY before 5pm. Nuttin' but MONEY... if you're gonna sin... WIN! OP, ask your guy point blank what the deal is and post the answer here, but NOT before 5pm. If it don't make dollars, it don't make sense!
You are hilarious...LOL.

I'm going to go with WIFE/GIRLFRIEND 3:1 for the win.
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Old 10-04-2011, 09:27 AM
 
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I will take the trifecta

WIFE/GIRLFRIEND 3:1 for the win
PERFORMANCE ANXIETY 3:1 for the show
HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU 5:1 to place
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Old 10-04-2011, 09:45 AM
 
Location: Austin, Texas
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Maybe "he" has a surpise for you that "he's" not quite ready to reveal.


The kinks - Lola - YouTube
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Old 10-04-2011, 10:08 AM
 
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You didn't say how old he was, but if he still lived with his parents he wouldn't want you coming to his house, and he might not come to your house so he wouldn't feel obligated to invite you to his. This reminds me of the old video clip where the newly married guy watches his new bride walk into the bathroom and stand in front of the toilet to urinate.
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Old 10-04-2011, 10:13 AM
 
Location: USA
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I'm thinking small penis from that other thread
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