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Koale · 10-06-2011, 08:25 AM

whatever...
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Whyte Byrd · 10-06-2011, 08:36 AM

Only 4 years and ready to throw in the towel. Wow.

I think they should make getting married a lot harder than it is. I have no idea how. It's just become such a joke. Everyone's disposable nowadays.

D217 · 10-06-2011, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Whyte Byrd

Only 4 years and ready to throw in the towel. Wow.

I think they should make getting married a lot harder than it is. I have no idea how. It's just become such a joke. Everyone's disposable nowadays.

4 years with a crazy person, I'm surprised it's even lasted this long

Whyte Byrd · 10-06-2011, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by D217

4 years with a crazy person, I'm surprised it's even lasted this long

For better or for worse, in sickness and in health....like I said, it needs to be harder to get married.

himain · 10-06-2011, 08:42 AM

If she's unwilling to go back on her meds, leave her. You're life will never be happy again with her as long as she's not willing to make changes.

Then, work on yourself first and then see what else is out there.

Yes you're BF has feelings but she's made it clear she won't be leaving her BF so you're SOL

yellowsnow · 10-06-2011, 01:07 PM

Why does she not want to take her meds? If there's an issue with the way they make her feel, try something different. There are choices out there.

One at a time here. Finish one relationship, then move on to the next.

paganmama80 · 10-06-2011, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Whyte Byrd

For better or for worse, in sickness and in health....like I said, it needs to be harder to get married.

You are assuming they took those vows

just anotherguy · 10-06-2011, 01:10 PM

The op never has come back to discuss so my thought is that someone was cranking our yank

heetseeker · 10-06-2011, 01:11 PM

iT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE THE INSECURE CRAZED MANIPULATIVE ONe IN YOUR marriage. To be more direct, if it's possible, you seem like a scumbag.

Professor Griff · 10-06-2011, 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by heetseeker

iT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE THE INSECURE CRAZED MANIPULATIVE ONe IN YOUR marriage. To be more direct, if it's possible, you seem like a scumbag.

A lot of people would seem like scumbags if they admitted their marriage situations and feelings towards their spouses. I give credit to the OP for at least trying to get opinions on the matter before jumping in and doing something regretful. Of course, these types of posts typically draw a lot of the wrong assumptions and judgements on this forum.