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I agree it is superficial, but not always malicious. Sometimes women just really don't understand what it's like to be a man and to be really interested in a woman and have to go out on the line to initiate a relationship. Sometimes they think that making you a friend is actually kind. I realize it's not but lacking insight into men this is what we think, until we know better. There are a minority of women that do get ego strokes from having a puppy around, but these women are relatively rare and ultimately puppy's are high maintenance.
Oh, but we do...I have contacted men on dating sites.
Men have all of the power, because they ask the woman out, and decide who they want. Women can say no, but without the men asking, nothing happens.
To me, becoming bitter is the most pointless of emotions. It shows a mindset that you are entitle to something, you haven't gotten it and you're pissed.
I had a girlfriend asked me... aren't you bitter? After one relationship failed in 3 years... Um, no? It happens.
Don't play around with the friend zone... if you want more, move on, unless you genuinely want to be friends with the girl.
You have to value yourself. You may be the person that is only compatible with 5% of the population, BUT all you have to do is find that one person. Attraction and compatibility is very complicated, and you can't take it personally. It just is.
I hope you find the girl who is right for you, and you live happily ever after.
Being 'friend-zoned' isn't the end, man. As long as you're close to her there's always a chance, as long as you don't become like a brother. What's wrong with having female friends you find attractive? What's more, they can introduce you to more of their friends etc. Gotta think outside the square.
Just act like it's gonna happen and things will start to fall into place.
(Bolded portion above) In theory...but that's only if they "care" enough about you to actually do so. Unfortunately, some of the ladies can be very unfairly socially-Darwinian in their estimation of your worth as a person, at least in their eyes (not that they would ever admit that to you, to your face though)
Yes, but what the hell? Does that mean that I have no right to date or something? Sheeeesh!
And I'm 24 in 19 minutes
If you are really going to medical school to become a doctor, then that will be enough to get you a decent girlfriend/wife by the time you get out of residency.
If you are really weird or creepy, then it might be a problem, but I don't see that from your posts.
There's a fair chance many of these blokes are already familiar with that, lol.
lol. how can anybody get tired of themselves? i never understood that. loving somebody okay but sex. whatever to that.
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