When does "so funny" become "so immature"? (dating, wives)

[Currency Pair Crocodile]

So, so, so I have imposed curfew on this woman I met off a dating website. She made some comments about my ancestry - no inter-ethnic clash here, she and I are both Indian.

She texted a lot and I ignored. She emailed and I am still ignoring her.

She finally said today she has all kinds of guys falling for her and asking her out and she has no need to humiliate herself for a gadha like me. Her words. Gadha means donkey.

Then after a couple hours she says that even though she has so many admirers, there's none like me, none so funny, none so energetic and playful. And I wasn't even at my energetic best as I'm still dreaming of the past and am in the getting over it process But when she said that it all sounded familiar.

It's all funny, playing and adorable now...... and after the guy falls for you and lets himself deep into the relationship, it gradually becomes "immaturity" and "easy-headedness".

How does a man eventually transmutate himself into a dull, fat, hairy and mature husband that's so appealing to the wives

[Raena77]

You need to know and learn when to turn it off and on. There is a time and place.

[Currency Pair Crocodile]

Originally Posted by Raena77

You need to know and learn when to turn it off and on. There is a time and place.

Which is never a problem when girl meets guy

I'll always be what I am, becoz that is how you fell in love with me.

Would it be fine if I gained 100 pounds?

[SVTRay]

I thought you guys did the arranged marriage thing?

[Coolhand68]

You ignored her just a little too long for her liking, and now you get the obligatory tongue lashing. She didn't mind being baited, but you had to go and jerk the bait everytime she got ready to bite. Now it's time to pay the band.

[virgode]

Theres a simple answer...Do you want to see her again or don't you? Can you put the remark behind you?

I have to give her credit for being persistant.. and who knows, she could be the love of your life.

From my own experience tho, how a relationship starts, is usually how it ends.

Heres the definition Ambrose Bierce gives for apologies:

To lay the foundation for a future offense.

[D217]

I was going to say once you start incorporating 'bathroom humor'...because that's really only funny for the guy.

[Johnny Vanderburgh]

Just give her four little letters: F. O. A. D.

[Ro2113]

Originally Posted by Antlered Chamataka

Which is never a problem when girl meets guy

I'll always be what I am, becoz that is how you fell in love with me.

Would it be fine if I gained 100 pounds?

Don't mind me for asking but what does being fat have to do with this?

[purehuman]

A man NEVER has to "transmutate" himself into anything...he needs to stay "who" he is....that is how he stays married to his wife, and that is why his wife stays with him.....You just picked the wrong woman.