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His higher brain functions vetoed his lower brain functions. Yes, this IS possible! Despite his autonomic physical response, he didn' wanna do ya. Why not? Only he knows.
His higher brain functions vetoed his lower brain functions. Yes, this IS possible! Despite his autonomic physical response, he didn' wanna do ya. Why not? Only he knows.
I agree. Sounds like she was a FWB that wanted to take it to relationship central.
First, sorry for the crudely titled thread, but that's pretty much the sum of it.
I recently confessed to a guy that I had feelings for him and he said he felt similarly but I just got the feeling his feelings weren't as strong as mine. We ended up hanging out a few days later where I slept over. We cuddled and his manhood was at full attention, but when I went to kiss him, he seemed not that into it. Then, when I sorta tried to touch him "down there", he gently but firmly removed my hand.
WHAT.THE.HELL. ???
anyone have any ideas what this is about? Do you think he just feels sorry for me and isn't that into me hence the cuddling but dispassionate kissing? If he's not into me, why did he have a massive hard-on? We've fooled around in the past w no issues, so I don't get what the deal is now.
IMO he didn't like the sex when you did it before. How many time have you done it? Guy don't just turn it down for no reason. the only time I turned it down was if I really, really didn't like the girl/woman, or we had sex before and she was a horrible lay.
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Originally Posted by SunshineFlower
First, sorry for the crudely titled thread, but that's pretty much the sum of it.
I recently confessed to a guy that I had feelings for him and he said he felt similarly but I just got the feeling his feelings weren't as strong as mine. We ended up hanging out a few days later where I slept over. We cuddled and his manhood was at full attention, but when I went to kiss him, he seemed not that into it. Then, when I sorta tried to touch him "down there", he gently but firmly removed my hand.
WHAT.THE.HELL. ???
anyone have any ideas what this is about? Do you think he just feels sorry for me and isn't that into me hence the cuddling but dispassionate kissing? If he's not into me, why did he have a massive hard-on? We've fooled around in the past w no issues, so I don't get what the deal is now.
There are many explanations. He's obviously interested in something about you (the autonomic nervous system doesn't lie).
He could have a girlfriend, he could be constrained by his beliefs, he could have an STD or any number of other things.
Unless there's something significant about you that he's privy to and we are not, I doubt very much that you should read that as an offense to you or the result of a negative judgment levied.
First, sorry for the crudely titled thread, but that's pretty much the sum of it.
I recently confessed to a guy that I had feelings for him and he said he felt similarly but I just got the feeling his feelings weren't as strong as mine. We ended up hanging out a few days later where I slept over. We cuddled and his manhood was at full attention, but when I went to kiss him, he seemed not that into it. Then, when I sorta tried to touch him "down there", he gently but firmly removed my hand.
WHAT.THE.HELL. ???
anyone have any ideas what this is about? Do you think he just feels sorry for me and isn't that into me hence the cuddling but dispassionate kissing? If he's not into me, why did he have a massive hard-on? We've fooled around in the past w no issues, so I don't get what the deal is now.
So if a woman is sexually aroused Moderator cut: not PG13 is a guy entitled to to have sex with her? Nope, everybody would say that men need to be respectful towards women blah blah blah. Well, apply this to your scenario. If he was not feeling like it, too bad, respect his desicion. Women need to learn when a man says "no" as well. Blue ovaries won't kill you, believe me. You take "matters into your own hands" and move on.
Last edited by Keeper; 10-10-2011 at 04:55 PM..
Reason: Keep it PG13
There is no way he feels sorry for you. Men do not get hard-ons because they feel sorry for someone. Do you really think they can just tell their "boy" to rise so that the young lady doesn't suspect he isn't into her? Come on. There's no way.
So there are several possibilities here that I would consider.
1. He had sex with someone earlier and hadn't showered.
2. He had a severe case of herpes and was sparing you the horror.
3. He was getting treated for some other STD.
4. He fell in love with you and now doesn't want you using him.
5. He is playing mind games and is torturing you sexually so you will want him more later.
6. You're dating onihC.
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