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First, sorry for the crudely titled thread, but that's pretty much the sum of it.
I recently confessed to a guy that I had feelings for him and he said he felt similarly but I just got the feeling his feelings weren't as strong as mine. We ended up hanging out a few days later where I slept over. We cuddled and his manhood was at full attention, but when I went to kiss him, he seemed not that into it. Then, when I sorta tried to touch him "down there", he gently but firmly removed my hand.
WHAT.THE.HELL. ???
anyone have any ideas what this is about? Do you think he just feels sorry for me and isn't that into me hence the cuddling but dispassionate kissing? If he's not into me, why did he have a massive hard-on? We've fooled around in the past w no issues, so I don't get what the deal is now.
Maybe he was sexually abused. Or he didn't want to go there yet. Believe it or not some men want to take it slow.
I may have been guilty of this silly behavior when I was younger, but I was one of those who thought I should take it slow if I thought to girl was worth it.
These days, if we both want to get friendly early in the relationship (I'm not talking one night stands) I already know I want to pursue a relationship. If it's somebody I'm not into, I'm not going to be making out with her in the first place.
On the other hand he may just not be that much into you and Mother nature is just controlling his flag pole
I may have been guilty of this silly behavior when I was younger, but I was one of those who thought I should take it slow if I thought to girl was worth it.
These days, if we both want to get friendly early in the relationship (I'm not talking one night stands) I already know I want to pursue a relationship. If it's somebody I'm not into, I'm not going to be making out with her in the first place.
On the other hand he may just not be that much into you and Mother nature is just controlling his flag pole
So if the latter is true, do you think he asked me to stay over and cuddled bc he felt sorry for me? (bc I told him I had feelings for him recently)?
I may have been guilty of this silly behavior when I was younger, but I was one of those who thought I should take it slow if I thought to girl was worth it.
These days, if we both want to get friendly early in the relationship (I'm not talking one night stands) I already know I want to pursue a relationship. If it's somebody I'm not into, I'm not going to be making out with her in the first place.
On the other hand he may just not be that much into you and Mother nature is just controlling his flag pole
Me too taking it slow is better. Yet at times I am not getting any younger. lol
As in the flag pole...at least it works. But a friend told me he pops them from time to time. Guess if his mind wonders. lmao!
First, sorry for the crudely titled thread, but that's pretty much the sum of it.
I recently confessed to a guy that I had feelings for him and he said he felt similarly but I just got the feeling his feelings weren't as strong as mine. We ended up hanging out a few days later where I slept over. We cuddled and his manhood was at full attention, but when I went to kiss him, he seemed not that into it. Then, when I sorta tried to touch him "down there", he gently but firmly removed my hand.
WHAT.THE.HELL. ???
anyone have any ideas what this is about? Do you think he just feels sorry for me and isn't that into me hence the cuddling but dispassionate kissing? If he's not into me, why did he have a massive hard-on? We've fooled around in the past w no issues, so I don't get what the deal is now.
Girl he is a down low brother. Watch out ladies, they are everywhere!!!!!!!!!!!!
I guess I figured since we've already "done the deed" in the past, we were past taking it slow now?
What do you all think? ANY advice would be helpful.
Hmmmm you done the deed.....and he wasn't in to you?
Comes to mind:
1. He want's it more than about sex.
2. There is another person.
3. He ran out of Viagra.
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Yet at times I am not getting any younger. lol
