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Unread 10-13-2011, 11:57 AM
 
Location: USA
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Many women would, but that doesn't mean it's a good idea.
I feel like I end up meeting all of the women that marry these guys
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Unread 10-13-2011, 12:36 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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But listen guys, it is not nurturing to a relationship when you call me every night to make drunken conversation about every injustice you have faced in life and how much evil there is in the world. Even if you are German.
I don't really think the conversation is a direct result of him being drunk. You're just culturally and temperamentally incompatible. I certainly have plenty of experience with that.
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Unread 10-14-2011, 11:18 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Alcoholism is a progressive disease and unless this disease is treated, it will get worse. There is no cure for this disease, it is only a matter of whether he is sober or not. That's it.

I think that you made a good decision.
Exactly...its impossible for alcoholics to be nurturers in a relationship.
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Unread 10-14-2011, 11:20 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Exactly...its impossible for alcoholics to be nurturers in a relationship.
The American and German idea of alcoholism is most likely different, too.
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Unread 10-14-2011, 12:28 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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The American and German idea of alcoholism is most likely different, too.
Yeah, I have German friend who's husbands liver gave out a few yrs ago.

She never considered him an alcoholic.
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Unread 10-14-2011, 12:46 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Yeah, I have German friend who's husbands liver gave out a few yrs ago.

She never considered him an alcoholic.
And nobody can also say for sure why his liver gave out. I'm pretty sure other livers do, too. Just like my Grandpa got some sort of lip cancer supposedly common among smokers. Only that he'd never had a smoke in his life.
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Unread 10-14-2011, 03:01 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I really really wish people would stop using a completely and annoying term like "Next"


Drives me bonkers.
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Unread 10-14-2011, 03:27 PM
 
Location: Colorado
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I really really wish people would stop using a completely and annoying term like "Next"


Drives me bonkers.
Next...
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Unread 10-14-2011, 06:01 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Next...
Yeah.....that was a real hoot.

Must took some brainstorming to come up with that knee slapper.

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Unread 10-15-2011, 07:46 AM
 
Location: Colorado
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yeah.....that was a real hoot.

Must took some brainstorming to come up with that knee slapper.

:d
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