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Old 10-13-2011, 09:21 AM
 
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UNLVO9....if I was with this women I'd wonder what (if the relationship didn't last) she'd be telling the next one about me....do you think about that??
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Old 10-13-2011, 09:23 AM
 
Location: In the clouds
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And many have been dumped(and rightfully so) for lying. But that's not the issue here. The issue is her being so vocal and upfront about who she's been with. That's unacceptable. He needs to put his foot down. She either needs to knocks off the crap or he needs to dump her and find someone else.
Agreed.
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Old 10-13-2011, 09:46 AM
 
Location: Florida
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At the very beginning of my freshman year in college I started seeing this chick who had just broken up with her long-term high school boyfriend.

I was young and curiosity got the better of me so one night in the middle of a conversation about sex I asked her how big his tool was. She said she never measured it but if she had to guess, "eight inches long or so and about as big around as a bottle of water."

Damn. I've never been insecure about my standard-issue six inch knob, but that is definitely not what I was hoping to hear. I'm a pretty big freak and I talk extremely dirty in bed, and that was tough with this chick after hearing that little tidbit. What was I supposed to say... spread your legs girl, let's see if you can handle being pounded by my average-sized tool!

Needless to say, I haven't asked that question to anyone else.
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Old 10-13-2011, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Austin, Texas
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It's perfectly natural for a man to become uneasy or even downright jealous when he hears about his wife's or girlfriend's past intimacies, which, when you think about it, doesn't make alot of sense since he wasn't even in the picture back then. But hey, it's a guy thing. It's hardwired in our DNA I guess, from back in our homo erectus (man, I love saying that word!) days when we would drag our potential mates off into the cave by their hair to make boom-boom.
And most women are only slightly more rational about this, I think. Most of them don't want ot hear about our past dalliances, either.
But my wife? She's weird. She loves to hear stories of my past days of conquest and debauch. the more sordid the story--and, I gotta say, I have a few--the better for her. She'll sit up real close to me and curl her legs under her and lean in and egg me on to tell more, like a little girl wanting to hear a bedtime story. And she'll even ask questions: "And then what did she do to you? And then what did you do? And who is this girl in this picture? What's her name? She has a nice ass! Was she a good lover? And what's this dwarf doing over there?"
But her tolerance with my old ways stops there. She has stated in no uncertain terms than if I ever cheat on her she'll put my balls in a blender.
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Old 10-13-2011, 10:18 AM
 
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You're not insecure for not wanting to know about such intimate details involving another man. I think your partner is extremely insensitive.

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But even if you can live by this, is it wrong to simply have a preference for a sexually conservative woman, and be turned off by sexually liberal ones? Does having this preference or worldview make one "insecure" or a bad, judgemental person? I mean, don't we all have our preferences in partners, and aren't many of those "outdated"?
There's nothing wrong with preferring a sexually conservative woman.
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Old 10-13-2011, 10:18 AM
 
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To the OP: she is insensitive and cruel. That comment about ball size was just plain mean. Find someone else.

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Really. In that situation, if I were the OP, I might very well have said, "Maybe mine are not huge, but honey, you've got brass ones to even tell me all of this."
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Old 10-13-2011, 12:03 PM
 
Location: USA
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At the very beginning of my freshman year in college I started seeing this chick who had just broken up with her long-term high school boyfriend.

I was young and curiosity got the better of me so one night in the middle of a conversation about sex I asked her how big his tool was. She said she never measured it but if she had to guess, "eight inches long or so and about as big around as a bottle of water."

Damn. I've never been insecure about my standard-issue six inch knob, but that is definitely not what I was hoping to hear. I'm a pretty big freak and I talk extremely dirty in bed, and that was tough with this chick after hearing that little tidbit. What was I supposed to say... spread your legs girl, let's see if you can handle being pounded by my average-sized tool!

Needless to say, I haven't asked that question to anyone else.
If you have been around Pimpy you have probably been with more than one woman who has had an El Giganta in the past. Fortunately, they shrink back down to fit the less well endowed fast!
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Old 10-13-2011, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Florida
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If you have been around Pimpy you have probably been with more than one woman who has had an El Giganta in the past. Fortunately, they shrink back down to fit the less well endowed fast!
I think most men have an inflated perception of just how many "El Gigantas" there are out there, probably due to excessive porn consumption. Studies show that over 95% of men pack between five and seven inches. Yes, even men on Craigslist fall within this range when it's a third party doing the measuring. Since I'm dead in the middle of that spectrum, I'm not too concerned.

With that said, I know there are some dudes on the prowl packing seriously heavy artillery. For example, Tiger Woods is known to swing a very big club, and not just on the golf course. I also know that I have probably cracked more than a few chicks who were once reamed out by one of these third legs.

I don't date many virgins at my age, so obviously the chicks I'm banging have had more than a few knobs (of various sizes) that aren't mine inside them. This doesn't bother me at all, but like the OP, I'd rather not hear specific details. I worship my six inch pole of pleasure like it's the only one on Earth, and I like to at least pretend that the chicks I'm scoring with do as well!
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Old 10-13-2011, 12:19 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Another time she was like "I'm glad you don't have really big balls. It grosses me out when I'm with a guy who has extremely big balls." I was disturbed and said "That's WAY too much information!"

I'm sorry but this totally made me LOL.


I hope the OP is no longer with this....female.
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Old 10-13-2011, 05:20 PM
 
Location: Austin, Texas
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Really. In that situation, if I were the OP, I might very well have said, "Maybe mine are not huge, but honey, you've got brass ones to even tell me all of this."

AC/DC - Big Balls - YouTube
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