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Old 10-15-2011, 11:02 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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My only fear is that I pass away before my wife.
I don't want her to be lonely or afraid.
Yeah, I hope my wife dies before me too.
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Old 10-16-2011, 01:31 AM
 
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I am a complex individual yet consider myself laid back and go with the flow..

My biggest fear? Is to allow myself to really fall in love again since I have only loved one man in my entire life......
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Old 10-16-2011, 02:13 AM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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Nothing, because I just don't give a ****.
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Old 10-16-2011, 02:28 AM
 
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In hindsight, my worst fear already happened. Never feared it, because I never contemplated it.
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Old 10-16-2011, 01:35 PM
 
Location: Washington County, ME
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In hindsight, my worst fear already happened. Never feared it, because I never contemplated it.
Pretty much the same here, with a couple things.

I dont fear any more in relationships. It's not worth it. I try VERY hard to live my life in the moment - by that i mean, enjoying that moment and not worrying about the past or future.

Doesnt mean i live every day like it's my last, but i find enjoyment.

I think most people have some fear of death, their's or that of their loved ones.
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Old 10-16-2011, 02:09 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I'm in a new relationship, so my fear is that he's not what I think he is - and he will let me down. Hopefully he's been honest with me.

We all let people down in some fashion. The trick is hopefully it isn't on the important stuff that we fail on.

Good luck.
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Old 10-16-2011, 02:12 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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My only fear is that I pass away before my wife.
I don't want her to be lonely or afraid.
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Yeah, I hope my wife dies before me too.
I agree too, I'd rather take the hit before she has to.
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Old 10-16-2011, 02:15 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I don't actively think about my biggest fears, as I'm usually battling the smaller ones to face the biggies.

I think something major happening to me and not being about to earn an income and having my SO being stuck with care taking for me would be right up there in worst fears.

My SO's brother is having a lot of health problems and I'm seeing the toll its taking on the family.
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Old 10-16-2011, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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Him dying.

Or finding out that we're related. I saw an episode of House about that and I was terrified! I don't know my dad, but he knows both his parents so I think we're good. haha
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Old 10-16-2011, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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I'm not sure I would want to go first over my GF/Wife. I know she would be lonely without me at least I would hope so.....
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