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Old 10-28-2011, 07:13 PM
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Location: Arlington, Virginia
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Okay, personally I would want to know just so I don't play with it in my mind sometimes. Now if she was wild a few years back and ran around but changed her life and is coming correct wanting a real relationship cool. Now if I'm feeling like I'll just be a number and she'll move on to more bed-hopping, nothing substantive will happen.
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Old 10-28-2011, 07:15 PM
 
Location: Minneeeesoootah
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Really? With 100% condom usage and putting it on correctly? Wow to the several... I understand one... but several? I would call Trojan... They owe ya some child support!

That 15% condom failure rate is generally attributed to human error or not using them 100% of the time. They actually say proper 100% usage of a condom is about 98-99% effective. Then mix that with birth control (and I an advocate for any woman NOT wanting to get pregnant to be on some form of female contraceptive, especially since there are so many options now).

I will also add (way off topic and I apologize), single women, or any woman that does not want to get pregnant, need to learn their bodies and cycle. There are only 5-6 days a month where a woman "might" be fertile (and that depends on if the male produces some good 'swimmers')... usually it is just 2-3 days. It does not take long for a steady partner to figure this out either.
Unfortunately, the libido runs higher during these fertile times. Many woman don't realize this. If they did, they would probably be extra cautious.
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Old 10-28-2011, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Sherman Oaks, CA
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Some women (me included) have very irregular cycles, so the rhythm method doesn't exactly work for us. But now I'm getting off topic...

On the one hand, I wouldn't want to be with someone who would judge me for having more than one or two lovers. On the other hand, though, I don't want to be with someone who thinks that sex is like a handshake, either. There must be some middle ground somewhere!
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Old 10-28-2011, 07:55 PM
 
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Default Do you think men care about the number of men a woman has slept with.

Nope....at least, I don't

Last edited by Ron.; 10-28-2011 at 08:00 PM.. Reason: added more to my response.
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Old 10-28-2011, 07:56 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Nope.
You don't, but some men do
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Old 10-28-2011, 07:57 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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You don't, but some men do
I think MOST men do not care.
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Old 10-28-2011, 07:59 PM
 
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You don't, but some men do

Some men would not be ready for the answer!

It's really none of my biz. As long as she's not infected with anything, what she did before me is none of my biz.
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Old 10-28-2011, 08:02 PM
 
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I think MOST men do not care.
It would be hard to know the percentages without some kind of study I suppose.

This is why I think it's only fair to say, some men won't care at all, and some men will most definitely care

Like many other things in life, the acceptance or rejection of something is very much an individual preference based on who we are as people.
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Old 10-28-2011, 08:08 PM
 
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I think MOST men do not care.
Maninly because we want to be one that has slept with her too.
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Old 10-28-2011, 08:16 PM
 
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Some men would not be ready for the answer!

It's really none of my biz. As long as she's not infected with anything, what she did before me is none of my biz.
Ronnie Ronnie Ronnie...what if she later tells you that she hooked for a little bit but its now out of her system?
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