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So you have never made love to a woman with her skin touching your own? I suppose that is a safe practice.
Maybe one day you will marry and if you would like to have children you will warrant it.
I do have to ask you why you are mixing water in a condom once you have ejaculated... I am perplexed on the reasoning with this....
I had one girl in 2004 beg me to sperm in her and that she was on birth control...and I have to say that scared me to death. I didnt even want to have sex with her anymore because I felt she was up to something, she always said she wanted to feel close to me, and by her feeling my natural climax was made her love me more...I never did it. In fact I think I bought more condoms which seemed to irritate her. We stop hanging like 2 months after.
Personally I think it is absolutely fair to include sexual history when evaluating a potential partner. If you don't want to, so be it, but it absolutely is fair for other people to do so. We judge each other for having a criminal history, for lifestyle choices such as drug or alcohol use, for being gainfully employed or not, and for being successful or not, for how we treat our parents and grandparents, for how we treat wait staff, for how we treat children. And all of these reasons to judge are fair, but sexual history isn't? That doesn't make any sense to me.
And let me tell you, I am 41 and divorced... "modest" isn't how anyone here would describe my number. But as an adult, I understand that this is a part of who I am, and as such it is fair to judge it, if only as a marker for compatibility. If someone is getting to know me and evaluating me as a potential partner, it is fair for them to evaluate my sexual history as a part of the deal.
As a man, if I'm trying to court you, and take you on as another person to take care of; and possibly a child, it IS my business to know your "history" because regardless if you realize it or not, you're selling a commodity, and its my job as a businessman to see if you're worth what you're asking.
So (that's how we psychopaths talk, I hear ), if she senses this matters to you, what is to prevent her from fibbing?! Can you find any tangible proof ever?!
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Ron, you should start a new thread." Have you been tested for std? Are you clean?"
I read a stat that said 80% of women by the age of 50 well have at some point in their lives have had the hpv virus. So no, most of these people are not clean.
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I read a stat that said 80% of women by the age of 50 well have at some point in their lives have had the hpv virus. So no, most of these people are not clean.
The idea of most people having an STD kind of makes me look down on them a bit. Call me an elitist. There are some advantages to being a virgin .
Well at least it's an hpv virus and not an hiv virus.
I read a stat that said 80% of women by the age of 50 well have at some point in their lives have had the hpv virus. So no, most of these people are not clean.
Most HPV strains are harmless though. HSV-2 on the other hand, not so much.
The idea of most people having an STD kind of makes me look down on them a bit. Call me an elitist. There are some advantages to being a virgin .
Well at least it's an hpv virus and not an hiv virus.
Most people won't even know they had hpv because for most people their bodies well cure it naturally, but it can led to cervical cancer in women. There isn't a test for men, so a lot a men are walking around with it and don't know(condoms cant protect you from it) they have it.
My dad is a doctor and obviously knows a lot of nurses and other experts in the medical field. He told me the herpes rate is really 1 in 3, not 1 in 5. That's after taking into account those that haven't been diagnosed and those that don't know they have it. You can contract it during an encounter and go several years before ever showing a symptom. It is possible.
My dad is a doctor and obviously knows a lot of nurses and other experts in the medical field. He told me the herpes rate is really 1 in 3, not 1 in 5. That's after taking into account those that haven't been diagnosed and those that don't know they have it. You can contract it during an encounter and go several years before ever showing a symptom. It is possible.
1 in 3 is probably right if you include all types 8 herpe viruse strains, and not just the ones that are categorized as a STDs.
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