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Old 10-27-2011, 10:09 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I don't understand what kind of girls you tightwads date.
Perhaps the tightwads and the feminazis make a match made in heaven...
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Old 10-27-2011, 10:38 PM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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Maybe we can just walk (run) away when we're done so no one has to pay.
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Old 10-27-2011, 10:46 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Maybe we can just walk (run) away when we're done so no one has to pay.
Why not... The joy of American "dating"!
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Old 10-27-2011, 11:01 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I don't understand what kind of girls you tightwads date.
Any way you slice it....and forget all that 2011 women's lib c r a p...she's a woman---your [some sort] of man.

I'm a man too--so don't think this is me sticking up for the ladies.

What kind of punk goes out on a date--A FIRST DATE MIND YOU-- with a woman and has to debate whether or not he oughta pay for it?????
The kind who's more concerned about money than a second date.
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Old 10-27-2011, 11:22 PM
 
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The problem with blokes like you is that by paying you feel it makes you have some sort of leverage or perhaps you feel it makes you more desirable or something...when in reality the moment you drop her off at home, she drives off to my place to sleep. l
Make me feel more desirable? Huh?
I could say something about what I know is desirable about me, but I wont.
Wait a sec...is that the problem here??
Somebody explore that.
Anyway....
I don't see how something as BASIC and EXPECTED as paying for a woman on the first date can be seen as me looking for acceptance.
For the record--I'm married and not into the silly games your still playing with money and girls.


"when in reality the moment you drop her off at home, she drives off to my place to sleep. "

See...theres the difference between you and me.
When I was dating, they went home to MY house....and we didn't go to sleep.
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Old 10-28-2011, 12:14 AM
 
Location: SWUS
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The problem with blokes like you is that by paying you feel it makes you have some sort of leverage or perhaps you feel it makes you more desirable or something...when in reality the moment you drop her off at home, she drives off to my place to sleep.
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"when in reality the moment you drop her off at home, she drives off to my place to sleep. "

See...theres the difference between you and me.
When I was dating, they went home to MY house....and we didn't go to sleep.
Percentage, man, you might want some ice for that nasty BURN
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Old 10-28-2011, 01:31 AM
 
Location: Silver Springs, FL
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This is my first time being asked out EVER by a girl (this is a new girl by the way). Ok, ok. How does this work when the girl asks out the guy? I really prefer to pay on the first date. Is that still OK?
Pay for the date, and refrain from talking about politics, if you do, you aint getting any.
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Old 10-28-2011, 01:36 AM
 
Location: Harrisonburg, VA
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She asked you out...she pays..makes the first move...opens your car door.
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Old 10-28-2011, 05:52 AM
 
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Make me feel more desirable? Huh?
I could say something about what I know is desirable about me, but I wont.
Wait a sec...is that the problem here??
Somebody explore that.
Anyway....
I don't see how something as BASIC and EXPECTED as paying for a woman on the first date can be seen as me looking for acceptance.
For the record--I'm married and not into the silly games your still playing with money and girls.


"when in reality the moment you drop her off at home, she drives off to my place to sleep. "

See...theres the difference between you and me.
When I was dating, they went home to MY house....and we didn't go to sleep.
Hahaha, we can all make unsubstantiated claims online so i wont get into whether or not you paid a hooker to come home with you for the night. You sound just like the type

Anyway, i am also a happily married man...just sharing from my experience hoping some other young person looking to get involved in a serious relationship can learn from it.


Disclaimer: Not saying every lady that comes home with you on a first date is loose..but using it as an argument for the purpose of cyber slapping this virtual macho/play boy..aka the REAL insecure punk!
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Old 10-28-2011, 05:54 AM
 
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Percentage, man, you might want some ice for that nasty BURN
lol, okay, if you say so.
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