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Old 10-29-2011, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Pa
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WOW.........so he dumped you?
Lmao! Tried to rep!
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Old 10-29-2011, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Hmmm dumped a guy because he was too young. I had a job and he didn't. Carted his butt around until I was tired of it.

Another guy dumped me because he was very accomplished in life and I was still in college. He was 7 yrs older than me. Also because I didn't have sex with him. Lol I swear it was.

This one guy I dumped him because I found out he was married. His wife emailed me and told me he had done this before! She snooped on him. Which I'm glad this was found out early.

Another dumped me because he wasn't ready to be a dad.

I just learned from my mistakes. I figured out when they aren't after me or willing to have the same standards as me. I want a relationship many don't or aren't ready for it.
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Old 10-29-2011, 06:30 PM
 
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This one guy I dumped him because I found out he was married. His wife emailed me and told me he had done this before! She snooped on him. Which I'm glad this was found out early.


Good reason to dump someone.
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Old 10-30-2011, 10:06 AM
 
Location: 'Shangri-La 'mountains west of Wolf Creek, Oregon
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It's always the same reason: penis too big.
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WOW.........so he dumped you?
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Second that big time...Too big?? Are ya kiddin me???


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Old 10-31-2011, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Western Europe
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Back in my mid twenties i had a second job as a bartender. A guy dumped me and said i was probably a bad girl for working in a club

I dumped a guy cuz he was too hairy. Shallow...i know ! Found his black hair everywhere in my bed and shower and that disgusted me
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Old 10-31-2011, 06:23 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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He was a psycho and deserted me to die. I'm glad because I survived and found a better life.
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Old 10-31-2011, 06:57 PM
 
Location: St. Louis
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He dumped me after a 23 year marriage b/c I lacked a penis and turned out that's what he really wanted. Then had a man explain on a 4th date that I had the wrong kind of hair!
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Old 10-31-2011, 07:43 PM
 
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lets see, I was dumped by my first love cause he claimed I "needed him too much". I still don't know what he meant by that, as I was constantly doing my own thing with dancing, friends, school and always working. He was in the military and gone 3-4 months a year and I always did fine. ha. I think he just didn't love me enough. We were on and off for 3 and a half years and each time he dumped me, he had a different excuse..one time he really did say he didn't love me anymore. oh well. I knew it all along by that time.

I got dumped by another guy cause he claimed his inability to show emotion hindered his ability to have a relationship and that he couldn't/didn't want a relationship at the moment. He was my friends roommate, so of course I found out he was dating another girl that I believe he's still with, less than a week after he told me what he told me. I didn't care that he was dating anyone else, I cared that he lied to me so severely the entire time I knew him, especially when he took me to lunch (and paid) to talk about that and to try to be friends. Ya, friends don't lie like that to each other. I pretty much knew he wasn't really interested in me and just using me, but he further lied when I confronted him about all of that. I will never understand why a man can't just tell a woman "no thanks", especially one that doens't seem insane, like me, lol. he's lucky I'm a nice girl, cause any other girl would have slit his throat or beaten up his stupid old pick up truck. Oh, and we're not friends like he claimed he wanted..he doesn't deserve that, not that he cares anyways.
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Old 11-08-2011, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Pa
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lets see, I was dumped by my first love cause he claimed I "needed him too much". I still don't know what he meant by that, as I was constantly doing my own thing with dancing, friends, school and always working. He was in the military and gone 3-4 months a year and I always did fine. ha. I think he just didn't love me enough. We were on and off for 3 and a half years and each time he dumped me, he had a different excuse..one time he really did say he didn't love me anymore. oh well. I knew it all along by that time.

I got dumped by another guy cause he claimed his inability to show emotion hindered his ability to have a relationship and that he couldn't/didn't want a relationship at the moment. He was my friends roommate, so of course I found out he was dating another girl that I believe he's still with, less than a week after he told me what he told me. I didn't care that he was dating anyone else, I cared that he lied to me so severely the entire time I knew him, especially when he took me to lunch (and paid) to talk about that and to try to be friends. Ya, friends don't lie like that to each other. I pretty much knew he wasn't really interested in me and just using me, but he further lied when I confronted him about all of that. I will never understand why a man can't just tell a woman "no thanks", especially one that doens't seem insane, like me, lol. he's lucky I'm a nice girl, cause any other girl would have slit his throat or beaten up his stupid old pick up truck. Oh, and we're not friends like he claimed he wanted..he doesn't deserve that, not that he cares anyways.
Good for you Mir! You deserve someone that wants you and cares for you.
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Old 11-09-2011, 05:48 PM
 
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I had someone claim he loved me and missed me and couldn't wait to see me (he was out of town), and then four days later he broke up with me (over the phone) after avoiding me all weekend. I never got a reason.

However, it ended up being the best thing that could have happened.
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