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Ron. · 10-28-2011, 08:55 PM

What did you do or what caused YOU to get dumped?

Spill the beans?

DISCLAIMER-Sorry for all of the threads........once a month at work I have to help with the "server switch" for the finance dept so I end up baby sitting the servers for 12 hours. So I need some more entertainemnt for another 2 hours(10 down, 2 more to go).

I can't complain because it's easy money and pizza on the house!!

Anyway, back to my fun time!

Red On The Noodle · 10-28-2011, 09:19 PM

I was wondering why all the "deep thoughts" lately

ho hey! · 10-28-2011, 09:38 PM

I got dumped because he didn't have any feelings for me anymore. He couldn't tell me but had to beat around the bush. -_-

Ron. · 10-28-2011, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Red On The Noodle

I was wondering why all the "deep thoughts" lately

LOL..yeah, I'm sitting in a server room.....just me and them. I got tired of watching youtube vids so it's back to CD. So far no problems or down time.

MeAndMillie2 · 10-28-2011, 10:11 PM

The quick ones: not interested in the long run. The major dumping episode: happened gradually over time to the point it was mutual.... or now that I think about it... maybe me thinking that was his plan all along.

While it is hard to get dumped... it sucks, actually... it is pretty difficult to be the dumper for many people and, in some cases, more draining. There are two guys, in particular, I have dumped, and it was actually more of an emotional roller coaster for me then ever being dumped.

thatsong64 · 10-29-2011, 01:24 AM

I've never been dumped.

temptation001 · 10-29-2011, 03:50 AM

I cut him off. His true colors came out.

penguin_kernel · 10-29-2011, 05:30 AM

Long time ago I got dumped cause I told my g/f that id rather finish myself off to porn then let her do it

Jersied · 10-29-2011, 05:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Ron.

What did you do or what caused YOU to get dumped?

I wanted children (eventually) and she would not hear of it. I also like the concept of having a family and keeping relations with extended family open, like during the holidays (not every day), but again this was taboo because she wanted to celebrate holidays alone (like, all the time).

I didn't make enough money, I was complacent, too kind, too honest, too quiet when it came to politics... Our sex life suffered (gee, I wonder why?).

NotQuiteNative · 10-29-2011, 09:49 AM

Because I decided I was better off on my own.