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Old 10-29-2011, 09:24 PM
 
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Liven it up by having an affair.
yup .... no more boring life.
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Old 10-29-2011, 09:28 PM
 
Location: Middleburg
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I'm the type of boring husband you describe and I would say just go out on your own if that's what you want to do. No need to drag him along if he's not social or dislikes going out. Sounds like he's perfectly content sitting at home watching a movie. I doubt he will mind.
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Old 10-29-2011, 09:43 PM
 
Location: Minneeeesoootah
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You don't marry a boring person to begin with. That seems almost impossibly basic. People don't just "turn boring," they are boring as kids, teenagers and then as grown ups.

You married someone that was a big bore, you have no one but yourself to blame.

Seriously, your marriage sounds like hell and you're unhappy. Talk to him about it, show him your post and go from there. But don't expect to turn someone you find "boring" into Mr. Excitement. You both sound incompatible in the extreme.
Well, that slap in my face stung a little.
Yes, his A$$ was boring, but I settled, I was a divorced mom with kids, yep, and the line was not very long to marry me with the baggage. I had no problem finding guys, but when they heard about the kids. WELL.... anyway, my A$$ is horny and bored. oops, the wine is getting to me.
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Old 10-29-2011, 09:45 PM
 
Location: Minneeeesoootah
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I'm the type of boring husband you describe and I would say just go out on your own if that's what you want to do. No need to drag him along if he's not social or dislikes going out. Sounds like he's perfectly content sitting at home watching a movie. I doubt he will mind.
If THAT'S what you want................................
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Old 10-29-2011, 09:56 PM
 
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I would never use the word boring. I think that's kind of cruel. I think it's matter of taste and what interests you. I have always known from the start my husband I are opposites and we have little in common. So...it can be a challenge.
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Old 10-29-2011, 10:01 PM
 
Location: Middleburg
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If THAT'S what you want................................
It sounds more like that's what you want. I'm just saying as a guy in his position, it's fine if you go out on your own.
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Old 10-29-2011, 10:02 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I love bored housewives

There are many at my gym.
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Old 10-29-2011, 10:10 PM
 
Location: Minneeeesoootah
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It sounds more like that's what you want. I'm just saying as a guy in his position, it's fine if you go out on your own.
I was saying it like he would he say it. SARCASTIC. Saying I want to go out , more than I want to be home with him.
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Old 10-29-2011, 10:11 PM
 
Location: Minneeeesoootah
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I love bored housewives

There are many at my gym.
I am bored, want to play?
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Old 10-29-2011, 10:13 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I am bored, want to play?
Yes, ma'am. Happy to help

I'm pretty snowed in and stuck myself. Last I checked my car it was like a white ball of ice.
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